Yes, it is normal to have trauma effect your relationships with woman. Specially if trauma is related to a woman in the first place.
Case in point. My ex, pretended to commit suicide on me, just so she could mess with my head. Then to top things off, she cheated on me with another man. Later that man killed himself. She later blamed me for that man's death, although I had nothing to do with his death.
Before I met her I was fine and normal around women, and had good relationships with them, both as just friends and in romantic relationships with them. I had a hard time getting back on my feet after her, I didn't see a woman or date one for more then a year later.
However. After a while I got back to normality. Although I still go to therapy for my troubles, and still have depression from it.
You should try to befriend more women, not seeking to date them, but just hang out with them. Once you get comfortable around them and see that most women are not "messed up," you should then start dating again.
You might also want talk to a therapist. They don't make the trauma go away, but having a two way dialogue with someone does help sort out your issues so you can sort them out yourself. .
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Yes, it is normal to have trauma effect your relationships with woman. Specially if trauma is related to a woman in the first place.
Case in point. My ex, pretended to commit suicide on me, just so she could mess with my head. Then to top things off, she cheated on me with another man. Later that man killed himself. She later blamed me for that man's death, although I had nothing to do with his death.
Before I met her I was fine and normal around women, and had good relationships with them, both as just friends and in romantic relationships with them. I had a hard time getting back on my feet after her, I didn't see a woman or date one for more then a year later.
However. After a while I got back to normality. Although I still go to therapy for my troubles, and still have depression from it.
You should try to befriend more women, not seeking to date them, but just hang out with them. Once you get comfortable around them and see that most women are not "messed up," you should then start dating again.
You might also want talk to a therapist. They don't make the trauma go away, but having a two way dialogue with someone does help sort out your issues so you can sort them out yourself. .