Is it normal for a guy to think your attractive and only want sex

Okay so he told me that he wants is to mess around with me and that's it. But yet I'm the only girl he's wanted anything from in a while? Does this mean he just looks at me like a whore? Does it mean I look like a whore? Does it mean I'm just not good enough? I'm happy he was honest with me Im just trying to get why he doesn't want to be with me?

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  • itsSnowing

    Unfortunately it's really common for guys to think like that. If he only wants sex and you want a serious relationship, then he isn't the right guy for you.

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    • Malq

      but if he thinks your attractive why is that the only thing he wants from you?

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      • Arm0se

        It doesn't matter. How good of a person could he really be? You can do better; a lot better.

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      • slings_and_arrows

        Well maybe he finds her attractive but doesn't think she's the right girl for him longterm. It's not that hard to understand.

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  • Arm0se

    He said it himself: he just wants you for sex.

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  • ______________

    'he wants is to mess around with me' - what's the point of being with him then? The only seriousness in this relationship is coming from you, don't settle for some guy who's just going to use you.

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  • RoseIsabella

    Thank him for his honesty, then forget about about him.

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  • Redcoats

    He's an asshole and you can do better.

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  • Short4Words

    Some guys just want it casual. Last girl I dated was a mindfuck. And it changed my mind on what I wanted. I wouldn't say I'm imposed to a relationship right now but I certainly don't feel up for one. That doesn't mean I don't want a girl's company. Your friend might feel similarly. Generally if a guy is using you won't even know it. If you really like him I wouldn't push him but if this isn't what you want you shouldn't wait around expecting more from him. Something could happen, something may not.

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  • thegypsysailor

    All it means is he wants to get laid, and he thinks this line will work on you. Will it?

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  • mystery7

    "Does it mean I'm just not good enough?"

    No.

    It means he's not good enough for you.

    "Im just trying to get why he doesn't want to be with me?"

    He is not ready for a relationship with you or with anybody - except perhaps his dick.

    You are nothing to him but a pretty face and body. Given a chance will use you... and probably brag about what he did with you to his mates.

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  • jaxfreako

    he wants sex with no strings attached and no emotional involvement. but maybe what he's saying and what he wants aren't the same thing.

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  • green_boogers

    If you don't want to fuck him, dump him.

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  • ScooterNyne

    Some people just want to bust a nut and leave it be. completely normal. reflects nothing bad about your own or his character.

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  • Fall_leaves

    He just wants something easy that he can brush off when he's done.

    I wouldn't bother worrying why he doesn't want to be with you because it's not going to change. Once you start hooking up that's all he's going to want you for. Don't take it personally or waste your time if you're looking for something serious go for a guy that takes you out on dates and respects you. The guy that hits up to fuck isn't the guy that's going to treat you right.

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  • iloverape

    You're a pretty dumb whore to even ask this question in the first place..I mean really? You're a woman, you're worthless unless you're bent over the bed with a cock in your butt or bent over in the kitchen making dinner...stupid girl.

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  • Aries

    He has been honest , this should go a long way . It's up to you to decide if that's okay or worth while . If he only wants to have sex , there is nothing wrong since some people only have a sexual and physical connection but wouldn't last as partners .

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  • missy911

    If he isn't pursuing you, if he isn't crazy about you, it is a dead end; unless you just want to have sex too.

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  • TrustMeImLying

    he could just be a picky guy who has no intentions for a serious relationship at this point of his life.

    or it's a line, which is ingenious because it seems to be working pretty well on you.

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  • dirtybirdy

    Straight up, wait up, hold up Mr. Lover
    like Prince said you're a sexy mutha...

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  • NathanScot

    Completely normal love.I blv he has genuine feelings for you but unfortunately/fortunately we are hard wired never to be satisfied with one pussy.So while we might love one particular girl we can and we will have sex with others.
    Doesnt mean u r a whore,infact the fact that he has been that honest with you about what he wants leads me to believe he rly does like you.We usualy save the honesty bit for girls we actualy care about.

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