Is it normal for a guy to last a while in bed?

Well. The guy I'm talking to can last for what I think, is a really long time. And don't get me wrong, I enjoy how long he lasts. But I feel alittle self conscious about it. I feel like since it takes him so long to finish, that he doesn't like it. Bc I've heard that if a guy likes something he's going so cum instantly. So is it that he doesn't like it? Or is this normal?

Is It Normal?
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  • My experience is older guys last longer, which is why I tend to have sex with older men...

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  • Oh, honey. First of all, talk to the guy and ask him questions- he's the expert on what he likes and doesn't like! Second, being able to last for a long time doesn't mean he doesn't like something. Think about it: how could a guy have sex that he liked if he always came right away? The sex would be over before it started!
    Being able to last a long time is a blessing, not a curse.

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  • Everyone's different and lenger sex is not "BETTER " sex

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  • To be honest some guys come pretty quickly and some just cant cum at all. It a common sexual dysfunction. You can look it up. I think for a regular person the time frame last between 10 to 15 mins. Thats just what i have learned since i have Premature ejaculation and i tend to read a lot about the subject. I cum even before my dick hits the pussy lips and its really frustrating. So i have to use a anesthetic spray on my dick every time i have sex. My advice is a guy who can last longer is always better than a guy with PE, even if its a dysfunction.

    No guy who is strait will dislike the sensation a pussy has on his dick. Truth be told. :)

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  • Maybe he has great control over himself.

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  • he is blessed to be able to last long! i cum fast, not real fast, but i need to stop before i cum, take breaks.

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  • You got some bad information. Being able to last has nothing to do with how attractive you are. It has everything to do with pacing, control, and external factors like age.

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  • Look up erectile dysfunction.

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  • Fuck you.

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