Is it normal for a girl i'm talking to to be talking to my ex?

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So this girl I'm talking to is talking to my ex right, and things left off kinda bad with my ex but I also don't think my ex is a bad person. I feel really weird about it, and they only started talking after the new girl and I started talking. I broke things off with my ex around 8 months ago, but I still find it super strange. Now the girl I'm talking to is talking about how they're hanging out and do all this stuff together. I don't want to be the one to be like "you can't talk to her" cause I don't want to be controlling but it really bothers me and I've made it really clear. What should I do?

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  • Tealights
    4 years ago

    Always remember these three things:

    1. She's your ex. You nolonger have to give a fuck about her existence unless you want to.

    2. You're right, you can't tell her to stop being friends with anyone, BUT you're not obligated to care about your girl's friends, especially if you don't like them.

    3. Give zero fucks overall.

    I know seeing your ex is annoying, and annoying you is probably what she's trying to do. Basically, do some reverse psychology shit on her and simply don't react or give a fuck. She's latching onto your girl and taking up her time to get back at you. If you come at your girl with hostility, whatever shit your ex told her will be proven right. So chill, and focus on loving your new lady.

    If she talks about your ex just say, "I understand she's your friend now, but... She's just history to me. I want to focus on you than my ex." Or something along those lines. If making her feel special doesn't work and she ignores your feelings, then you may need to find someone else to date.

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  • dimwitted
    4 years ago

    If it bothers you and you've mentioned it bothers and the new girl doesn't care, then you need to move on and find a new girl.

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  • Ichabuskene
    4 years ago

    1. Not normal for your current girl to be friends with your ex.

    2. You probably are attracted to a certain type of girl that would naturally have things in common with the other.

    3. Threesome?

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