Is it normal for a funny girl to try to be sexy?

Okay so I'm known as the 'funny girl' and everyone seems to enjoy my personality but thats it. It goes no further. Its like I can't be seen as sexy or whatever. I don't think it goes above pretty.

I have a friend and she's more on the bitchy/cruel side but she has a nice personality once you get to know her or make an impression on her. Everyone finds her gorgeous and a few like her but for me I just provide entertainment.

I'm not even going to lie I'm quite jealous. I'll try to be sexy but it just doesn't work. I'm not really flirtatious with guys- I just play-fight and talk to them. I'd have to really like you and even still I'm not fully sure how to be flirtatious/sexy.

Now I know I'm not ugly but I am starting to become self conscious and I want to wear make up like my friend does. I'm not going to though because I know thats not me (I'll wear makeup but not everyday and not much) and its going to ruin my natural face.

Anyhow maybe I'm just being an attention seeker....I just want to know who else is experiencing this and/or what you think.

Is It Normal?
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  • funny girls are sexy

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  • Cool,funny,n pretty is the three best n most attractive thing about a girl in my opinion.I'd take a girl like u then the perfect stuck up cunt bitch girl cuz they suck......

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  • Sure. Most people like to be seen as sexy, whatever their personality is like.

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  • Anyone would be lucky to have you as a gf I would date you but I don't know you

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  • How old are you? It kind of depends on that too... When you're in your younger teens you want to be seen as sexy and hot and beautiful and adult but you won't... Trust me... I try so hard... But when you get older or try doing something daring and new like a new lip stick/gloss or a short dress/skirt or new make up... They'll notice something different about your appearence and pay more attention to your appearance <3 don't worry, everyone wants to be sexy :)

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  • Well you can be both in having a good sense of humour and being pretty/smexy at the same time xD

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  • Confidence is the sexiest thing on a girl!

    I am also the token "funny girl" and it has helped me get a lot of guys over the years.

    Also, you can wear make-up without anyone really noticing it. Light foundation, mascara, and blush go a long way.

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  • I'm sure that loads of guys like you. A sense of humour is an attractive thing. You don't have to flaunt it to try and be sexy.

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  • I think if you embrace who you are, you'll be sexy by default ^_^

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