Is it normal for a female to still be a virgin at 21?

I'm 21 and still a virgin. I'm pretty average looking. I was constricted pretty heavily until the last 3 years. I'm just trying to get a gauge on how common it is to still be a virgin at 21.

Is It Normal?
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  • I'm still a virgin. That loosing your virginity shit is for the movies...live life at your own pace and choose your partner carefully.

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  • Everyone is different and what’s right for you is simply just the way it is. It’s probably a good thing in all hopes you’ll hopefully end up with a really good person.

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  • Virgin at 29.

    Seriously, this site is full of people who are into just about every niche sexual practice imaginable and defend it by their right to self-determination and obtention of consent. Why then should virginity be shameful? It doesn't matter if it's 'peculiar' or 'queer' in this day and age. If I could, I would out myself and start a solidarity movement, and we would go on pride marches together like everyone else who wants to rock their queerness.

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  • I think it is not so normal but who wants to be normal. It is so beautiful. Keep it as long as you like it gets better with age. I haev a friend who is 52 and a virgin.

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  • I'm 23 and I'm waiting until I'm married...Personally I want to give myself completely to one person only.

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  • There's not really any shame for women with not losing your virginity. Tbf as a man I find it quite endearing that you've clearly been picky with your partners.

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  • Dont feel so bad.. I was a virgin till I was 25..
    And there is no shame WHATSOEVER about still being a virgin
    You'll find the guy for you to have sex with..

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  • Of course it is. Don't ever feel pressured to do something that you're not ready for! Sex comes with lots of responsibility too. Although it might be fun, things might become complicated.

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  • The same posts again and again. There have been nuns who died virgins at age 90, IT IS PERFECTLY NORMAL, these same "iin to be a virgin at [[insert age]]" posts, see the suggestion "check to see if there are posts already on this topic" ....

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  • Do it when you are ready and not a minute sooner.

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  • What's sad is I'm turning 21 soon been dating a guy for a year aaa nd still haven't seen his dick. And im a virgin yes. And it aint for lack of trying, shit I sleep naked at night. Well I used to. I'm gonna dump him soon and well im not comfy with him seeing me naked anymore

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  • Its alright.

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