Is it normal for a female to be afraid to climax?

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I was eating this girl out the other night and she was moaning and saying my name a lot but then she stopped me. I thought maybe I just messed something up, so I asked her if there was anything I could improve upon. She told me she was afraid to climax and that she never had in any sort of sexual activity before. At first, I thought she was just being nice but then I asked "Haha, so not even in masturbation?" and she said she always stops herself before orgasm because it would be "overwhelming". I mean, we were being pretty rough with each other at first and she seems to really like pain, she kept saying "Harder" a lot when I was biting her on her neck and tits, but she doesn't want to orgasm. Have you experienced this with anyone?

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  • Thorolf
    7 years ago

    Just tell her that they usually aren't painful unless there's something wrong.

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  • WhiteApple
    7 years ago

    Tie her down and bring out the vibrator, she will cum for you.

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  • imsoJealousofIman
    7 years ago

    Beats me. lol. I think she's being polite. although tbf i dont/havent masturbated therefore I havent ever "came" ect and if a guy wss doing thst for you...i can see why it may be scary for her.

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  • mysistersshadow
    7 years ago

    Not normal. Not sure how to help you.

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  • CDmale4fem
    7 years ago

    If you get with her again, don't stop when she asks, then she can know how great it feels to orgasm.

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    • Protagoras
      7 years ago

      So rape her, essentially?

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      • CDmale4fem
        7 years ago

        No, I do not condone acts of violence. If you read the first sentence in the post, he says he was "eating her out". What I should have said was when hes going down on her again and in the heat of passion keep going and see if she will get to enjoy an "O" instead of "blue balls".

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  • bigfatdick4
    7 years ago

    The only thing for you to do is as follows, when she says "stop" whilst you are eating her, grab hold of her legs, push them behind her ears, pin her down and continue eating her sweet pussy until she moans in ecstasy!

    Once she has Cum, she will overcome her fear of cumming! After that you will have a fuck slut on your hands with whom you may do as you see fit!

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    • Thorolf
      7 years ago

      Except that would be rape. Thus he would go to prison.

      Not good advice.

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      • bigfatdick4
        7 years ago

        Now how in the Hell could you describe that as rape? He is already in between her legs, with her permission, I might add?

        If he jumped out of a bush and held her down, stripped her clothes off and forced himself upon her, now that would be rape!

        Shit for brains....

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        • Thorolf
          7 years ago

          Plus, you said to pin her down. Meaning he wouldn't just not stop, but also use force to continue. Which means he is going against her consent. Who's the shit for brains now? Haha.

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          • bigfatdick4
            7 years ago

            I rest my case, when she says stop, she is on the brink of an orgasm, another 5 seconds can hardly be rape!

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            • Thorolf
              7 years ago

              I suppose you're right there.

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        • Thorolf
          7 years ago

          Well, when someone says to stop then it's not consensual anymore. Like in bdsm, when you say the safe word, the dominant has to stop else they will be abusive. It's like that with normal sex too.

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