Is it normal during a blowjob?

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I've just started getting physical with a new guy. I've given him a blowjob on about 4 occasions, maybe twice when we've been drinking and twice in the morning. Thing is, he is COMPLETELY silent while I'm doing it. No moaning, not even a grunt, literally ejaculates with no indication it's about to happen. I've been told I give amazing blowjobs but thats partly because I read signals from the guy as to what they are enjoying and what they aren't, and this guy gives nothing away! I've said it's ok for him to put his hand on the back of my head but he didn't seem to really like the idea. It's not like he doesn't come, he does, but it makes me feel a bit insecure or something because I can't really tell that he's enjoying it?

He's quite a quiet guy generally, in a strong and silent way but I don't like this extending to the bedroom. So my question is, is it normal to stay completely silent even when ejaculating? Does it mean he's not enjoying it? And if not, why does he do this?

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  • asdf90091
    13 years ago

    He's probably trying really hard not to cum and then epic failing it.

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      13 years ago

      Why would someone try not to come on a bj though?

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      • asdf90091
        13 years ago

        Almost immediately after you cum your penis goes soft. It's kind of hard for another person to blow a soft penis, plus not all people are into eating cum. The entire point of having good sex is to keep it going for as long as possible. It's not that he doesn't want to eventually, he just wants to draw it out longer. You're giving good head, no guy in his right might wants to cut that short. If you pay close attention I'm sure he's giving away some subtle indication (probably a slight facial expression or maybe even a twitch).

        A lot of guys associate how long you can go without cumming with masculinity (which kind of make sense since it's a bitch to hold it in). There's a condition called premature ejaculation that affects a whole lot of guys, he could be one of them. It's basically where you cum as soon as you get really aroused. Most guys that suffer from it are extremely self-concious about it so don't bring it up.

        He might get better about it with time. Like anything else, it just takes practice to get good at.

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        • stillcurious
          12 years ago

          I agree with asdf90091. As he gets more confortable that will change.

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        • Anonymous Post Author
          13 years ago

          Really helpful, thanks alot!

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  • cumforfunn
    8 years ago

    I make plenty of noise,lol

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  • Cheese123
    10 years ago

    Some guys are just really shy and scared people will overhear it. It's a habit some of them develop from watching pron on extra silent.

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  • Ryan556
    11 years ago

    I chum almost instantly cause I find it relly arousing to have a girl suck my wang

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  • luv2read
    12 years ago

    If he cums your doing a good job. Plus other men have told you

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  • aduusw
    12 years ago

    Maybe you should ask him and talk about it

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  • rayst
    13 years ago

    Lol ^ asdf seems to be right...

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  • chaosdragoon1
    13 years ago

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