Is it normal customers at work develop crushes on me?

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At my job I'm usually very friendly. I'm polite to customers, I smile, and I do what I can to help. I have a high energy level and I'm usually very happy. I'm also socially oblivious and have a hard time winging conversations that go past talking about the item the customer is looking for, but I somehow get past it. At some point they'll ask to hang out. I'll ask if I can bring my boyfriend and sister along, they seem surprised, weirded out, or whatever that I have a boyfriend and just stop talking to me the next time they come around. People at work find this hilarious. I'm not sure if they're laughing at the customers since they hate those or if they're laughing at my dumb-ass? It's usually either women younger than me or older men that do this.

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  • Nicole20
    5 years ago

    I didn't read anything but your title. Customers always hit on me. I figure they are lonely so I'm nice to them

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  • IrishPotato
    5 years ago

    I'm pretty sure though they're not having crushes on you.

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  • Mehereok1
    5 years ago

    I have several hot, beautiful female bartender friends at the sports bar I go to, and guys are always crushing on them, hard, even when they know the woman is taken. One guy is a resident doctor, and has a hard crush on one of the girls, always mentioning how hot she is, boy I'd love a chance with her, etc. He knows she has a bf.

    Hell, even one who got married a few months ago. Guy was in one night, staring at her, admittedly tight and perfect, ass, saying how he liked her so much, could easily see a life with her, all this stuff. Until I told him, uh..She's getting married in 2 weeks.

    Even funnier, one night a few weeks ago, my long-time friend, "Lexi" (name change) was working. Two guys were playing music, and she was into it. They seemed to hit whatever she liked right on the jukebox, and she was talking to them, high-fiving them, etc. I saw the one guy really crushing on her, and he showed it. Asked her "Are you married?". To her answer of no. "Boyfriend?" to her answer of yes. He then shook his head and said "Figures. Knew it was too good to be true..Can I at least have a crush on you tonight?". She laughed and said yes.

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  • RoseIsabella
    5 years ago

    I think you're response is perfect!

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  • curious-bunny
    5 years ago

    Yea that sounds alot like me expect I almost never get asked out. One guy comes in on the reg though. Yesterday he came in spegevially to wish me a happy Christmas before leaving town for the holidays

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