Is it normal boyfriend has been a naughty boy how to spank

I need real answers not a bunch of silly ones and one normal one like yesterday.

My lover did the santa thing it really made a lasting impression on me ( perfect mix of pleasure and pain)It honestly took our relationship to a new level. He wants me to spank him now. wants a nice red bottom and wants it to really sting but not bruise. He wants it to be really memorable. I have never been the spanker always the spankee. I favor an old school paddle or a strap but am afraid it might be too much for him. I want him to enjoy it not be hurt. also he wants me to think of a new roleplay any ideas.

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  • Ellenna

    Sorry to be pedantic, but to me spanking means with the bare hand, not paddles or rules or anything else.

    Yeah it's normal, also common ...... just do how you would like it done and be aware of his responses, flexible and open to changing whatever technique you're doing, also to stopping IMMEDIATELY if he says the safe word, which you must establish well in advance.

    Have fun and be safe

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  • Arm0se

    Just use the old school paddle and give him a safe word. He can say something if it really is too painful.

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  • davier69

    just spank him then keep him naked for 24 hours

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  • Demarcus

    Give him a good warm-up spank with your bare hand first, get him deep pink. There's no way you can really hurt him with your hand. After warm-up, move to paddle, then the rest is up to you. Like Armose said, give him a safe word, start the paddling, go slow and easy, take your time, then pick up intensity. If he uses safe word stop, if his color has gone beyond your "comfort factor", stop.
    Don't forget the aftercare. Put some aloe-vera lotion in the fridge for after the spanking, then slather all over his burning bottom and have some fun!

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  • magentastar

    we are doing the 24 hour sex marathon thinks davier

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  • Gspyder

    Rent Casino Royale, skip to the torture scene, do that.

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  • KeddersPrincess

    Use a mace ball.

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  • tie a tow rope to the back of your car and make him run 60 miles an hour! delete that

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