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  • [Old Memory]
    4 years ago | pl

    I just wanted to say that being peaceful is not always a solution. Obviously it your case it wasn't a solution. Yes, you were indeed physically weaker, so it wouldn't have helped you much, but the alternative still damaged you. I encourage violence when it's used to respond, and I don't believe in any peaceful shit that brought us all here on this forum to share our pain with others.

    I didn't mock you and I don't know why you're so mean, because it was a purely informative reply, not intending to insult in any way, but maybe I deserve it so I'll just accept what you give me and that's that.

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    • RoseIsabella
      4 years ago | pl

      What was the alternative, and how did it damage me? I think the thing that damaged me most was in a relationship with him in the first place.

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      • [Old Memory]
        4 years ago | pl

        Yes, the damage was caused by him, and some of the damage could have been avoided when using force to stop it. You couldn't do it yourself, but others can, and you recommending them not to because it didn't work in your case isn't the best idea.

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        • RoseIsabella
          4 years ago | pl

          I think the best thing I could have done would have been to leave him as soon as he started becoming verbally abusive.

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          • [Old Memory]
            4 years ago | pl

            Yeah well it didn't happen so now that we talk to people who don't do the "best things", we should recommend them some useful things that we failed at doing.

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            • RoseIsabella
              4 years ago | pl

              Well, the best thing that I did was call the cops on his crazy ass, and leave so that is all I care about right now.

              Violence wasn't the answer, and it still isn't.

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              • [Old Memory]
                4 years ago | pl

                Alright, let's adopt this pacifist view then. I only want to say that retaliation installs fear in the enemy and prevents them from attacking. Could be useful temporarily to reduce the damage.

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