You bring up some excellent points, when I first responded I didn't know he was shoving her. I changed my tone when he said it was okay to shove her, which it isn't. He said later on that they're siblings which doesn't make any of it okay, but probably means they do this to each other all the time. He erased the comment where he said she's his sister. I don't know why though.
I initially thought they were in the U.S., because stories like this are all over talk shows like Maury Povich where the girl doesn't know who the father is so if she can narrow it down to a few they will do a DNA test. Rape is horrible, and disgusting, but we don't know if rape is part of this story, cause he never mentioned it. Then again, rape is quite common in India. I certainly hope that's not the case here.
Yeah, I saw you changed your attitude to him later. From what I've seen of that user, he's a misogynistic piece of shit all round. Some of that is probably down to culture, for sure, but most of it is down to the individual.
I still think my point stands about a woman who doesn't know who the father of her child is, though. It's not fair to automatically label her a whore. We certainly don't know if that's the story here, I just meant generally. I mean, it's probably not the case in the majority, but fuck...it definitely happens.
I rather suspect that a good part of the attitude could be cultural unfortunately. I asked him if he was getting any talk therapy to compliment the antidepressants he's already taken, but he told me it's extremely expensive in India, but I imagine there surely must be some more reasonable alternatives, or places where therapy might be offered on a sliding scale, of course I could very well be wrong. Some of the best help I've ever gotten has been from therapists who charge on a sliding scale that I was referred to by Catholic priests. Of course I think that in India many people have a different attitude towards poorer people than the attitudes of people in predominantly Judeo-Christian, or Abrahamic countries, but I digress.
I rather suspect that since he said at one point that this physical altercation, and name calling was between he, and his his sister that it is probably a constant back, and forth. He probably makes comments about her sex life, and she probably talks about his mental health. This is all just speculation on my part of course, but that what I suspect.
I really don't think Indian healthcare works like that. We're talking about a country with extreme poverty levels. Mental health is marginalised even in first world countries, I'd easily believe it's not going to be so readily accessible in India.
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"A chick who doesn't know who the father of her baby is on the other had has no one else to blame for her position."
Cos rape isn't a thing...
Not to mention, there's no given that this insult was based on anything but anger...
Yes, she shouldn't have said what she said to him. That doesn't make what he said ok, either. It makes both of them shitty people.
Edit: oh wow. Now I've read further, and he's an abusive piece of shit. That just gives even less credibility to his insult.
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You bring up some excellent points, when I first responded I didn't know he was shoving her. I changed my tone when he said it was okay to shove her, which it isn't. He said later on that they're siblings which doesn't make any of it okay, but probably means they do this to each other all the time. He erased the comment where he said she's his sister. I don't know why though.
I initially thought they were in the U.S., because stories like this are all over talk shows like Maury Povich where the girl doesn't know who the father is so if she can narrow it down to a few they will do a DNA test. Rape is horrible, and disgusting, but we don't know if rape is part of this story, cause he never mentioned it. Then again, rape is quite common in India. I certainly hope that's not the case here.
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Yeah, I saw you changed your attitude to him later. From what I've seen of that user, he's a misogynistic piece of shit all round. Some of that is probably down to culture, for sure, but most of it is down to the individual.
I still think my point stands about a woman who doesn't know who the father of her child is, though. It's not fair to automatically label her a whore. We certainly don't know if that's the story here, I just meant generally. I mean, it's probably not the case in the majority, but fuck...it definitely happens.
Maury is seedy and gross.
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I rather suspect that a good part of the attitude could be cultural unfortunately. I asked him if he was getting any talk therapy to compliment the antidepressants he's already taken, but he told me it's extremely expensive in India, but I imagine there surely must be some more reasonable alternatives, or places where therapy might be offered on a sliding scale, of course I could very well be wrong. Some of the best help I've ever gotten has been from therapists who charge on a sliding scale that I was referred to by Catholic priests. Of course I think that in India many people have a different attitude towards poorer people than the attitudes of people in predominantly Judeo-Christian, or Abrahamic countries, but I digress.
I rather suspect that since he said at one point that this physical altercation, and name calling was between he, and his his sister that it is probably a constant back, and forth. He probably makes comments about her sex life, and she probably talks about his mental health. This is all just speculation on my part of course, but that what I suspect.
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I really don't think Indian healthcare works like that. We're talking about a country with extreme poverty levels. Mental health is marginalised even in first world countries, I'd easily believe it's not going to be so readily accessible in India.
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That's really sad.