Rose, you are telling us how much you suffered and how you never hit him back. You are now unhappy and lonely. You tell us how you didn't use violence and the result isn't at all satisfactory. I don't understand why you insist on this peaceful method, when you're the living proof that it's not working. Violence works. I say again, violence works and solves your problems. Because of this peaceful trend, innocent people avoid it while abusers have been always using it.
Now you're just being a smartass. I think that I did the right thing by running to the camper, locking the door and calling the cops. There's no sense in trying to fight a person who is obviously that much bigger, and stronger than me. Anyway, I probably couldn't put up much of a fight without a weapon, and I'm not trying to go down for assault with a deadly weapon. I'm glad that I called the cops, had him arrested and got the fuck out of there! I had a cab company come with an minivan late at night/early in the morning, and drive me to a motel. No one in his family, nor any of the friends of his family knew where I was, and that's a good thing.
I have had my share of suffering, but I'm not really lonely at all, and I'm less unhappy than I was when I was with his sorry ass. If I have any regrets it would be that I regret rushing into a relationship with him after having only known him six months long distance. Long distance relationships are different from regular relationships. The fact that he came off as so perfect in the beginning could be a red flag. When he told me that all of his exes had cheated on him that is either a lie, or as much as I hate cheating it would be a clue that he's probably a jerk who drove them to cheat to try to get away from his crazy ass.
I talked with the arresting officer several times after the incident, and he's sure that my ex knows what he did was completely wrong. My God, my ex didn't even want the ring he bought me back, because he knows he's wrong, and that he fucked up
Dude, I don't know what crawled up your crazy ass, but I don't appreciate you mocking my muthafuckin struggle, biatch! You are just talking out your ass.
I just wanted to say that being peaceful is not always a solution. Obviously it your case it wasn't a solution. Yes, you were indeed physically weaker, so it wouldn't have helped you much, but the alternative still damaged you. I encourage violence when it's used to respond, and I don't believe in any peaceful shit that brought us all here on this forum to share our pain with others.
I didn't mock you and I don't know why you're so mean, because it was a purely informative reply, not intending to insult in any way, but maybe I deserve it so I'll just accept what you give me and that's that.
Yes, the damage was caused by him, and some of the damage could have been avoided when using force to stop it. You couldn't do it yourself, but others can, and you recommending them not to because it didn't work in your case isn't the best idea.
Yeah well it didn't happen so now that we talk to people who don't do the "best things", we should recommend them some useful things that we failed at doing.
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Rose, you are telling us how much you suffered and how you never hit him back. You are now unhappy and lonely. You tell us how you didn't use violence and the result isn't at all satisfactory. I don't understand why you insist on this peaceful method, when you're the living proof that it's not working. Violence works. I say again, violence works and solves your problems. Because of this peaceful trend, innocent people avoid it while abusers have been always using it.
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Now you're just being a smartass. I think that I did the right thing by running to the camper, locking the door and calling the cops. There's no sense in trying to fight a person who is obviously that much bigger, and stronger than me. Anyway, I probably couldn't put up much of a fight without a weapon, and I'm not trying to go down for assault with a deadly weapon. I'm glad that I called the cops, had him arrested and got the fuck out of there! I had a cab company come with an minivan late at night/early in the morning, and drive me to a motel. No one in his family, nor any of the friends of his family knew where I was, and that's a good thing.
I have had my share of suffering, but I'm not really lonely at all, and I'm less unhappy than I was when I was with his sorry ass. If I have any regrets it would be that I regret rushing into a relationship with him after having only known him six months long distance. Long distance relationships are different from regular relationships. The fact that he came off as so perfect in the beginning could be a red flag. When he told me that all of his exes had cheated on him that is either a lie, or as much as I hate cheating it would be a clue that he's probably a jerk who drove them to cheat to try to get away from his crazy ass.
I talked with the arresting officer several times after the incident, and he's sure that my ex knows what he did was completely wrong. My God, my ex didn't even want the ring he bought me back, because he knows he's wrong, and that he fucked up
Dude, I don't know what crawled up your crazy ass, but I don't appreciate you mocking my muthafuckin struggle, biatch! You are just talking out your ass.
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I just wanted to say that being peaceful is not always a solution. Obviously it your case it wasn't a solution. Yes, you were indeed physically weaker, so it wouldn't have helped you much, but the alternative still damaged you. I encourage violence when it's used to respond, and I don't believe in any peaceful shit that brought us all here on this forum to share our pain with others.
I didn't mock you and I don't know why you're so mean, because it was a purely informative reply, not intending to insult in any way, but maybe I deserve it so I'll just accept what you give me and that's that.
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What was the alternative, and how did it damage me? I think the thing that damaged me most was in a relationship with him in the first place.
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Yes, the damage was caused by him, and some of the damage could have been avoided when using force to stop it. You couldn't do it yourself, but others can, and you recommending them not to because it didn't work in your case isn't the best idea.
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I think the best thing I could have done would have been to leave him as soon as he started becoming verbally abusive.
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Yeah well it didn't happen so now that we talk to people who don't do the "best things", we should recommend them some useful things that we failed at doing.