True. I guess there's just that initial shock that someone who you thought was so wonderful was capable of being such an asshole. Then you beat yourself up for not realizing it sooner.
Don't beat yourself up about this shit. From what you've told me you are not the abusive asshole in the relationship, so don't put yourself down. Narcissists treat you so well in the beginning, because it's part of their process of grooming you.
IIN because of ex girlfriends..
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... but what's wrong with just kicking a verbal abuser to the curb? Fa real, yo! What's wrong with just dumping people who treat you badly?
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True. I guess there's just that initial shock that someone who you thought was so wonderful was capable of being such an asshole. Then you beat yourself up for not realizing it sooner.
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Don't beat yourself up about this shit. From what you've told me you are not the abusive asshole in the relationship, so don't put yourself down. Narcissists treat you so well in the beginning, because it's part of their process of grooming you.