It's normal but you should snap out of it. Do what Holzman67 says. It's all truth. I have been working out lately and regardless of results, I just FEEL like bad ass doing it. Just the idea and act of doing stuff to better yourself gives you unimaginable confidence. I was like you man. I've been there. All you can do is beat yourself up when you see someone you're interested in. But I made some changes to myself and now I have the confidence and the "not give a fuck" attitude. Still don't have the girl but that's a work in progress haha.
Here are some things that I did to not necessarily "better" myself, but just change it up a little bit and it made me feel really good about myself.
- Working out
- Bought some new jeans
- Got a haircut
just some simple stuff that made me feel better in my own skin. If you already have swag and sexy hair then just get swole haha. you can also try fragrance but don't get ridiculous with it. Maybe style your facial hair. Just put on something you have been wanting to try out and really break it in. the confidence will just come naturally.
Remember though. A new style is just to change it up and get you interested in yourself which will emit confidence. In the end though be yourself, talk about what you wanna talk about, laugh about what you think is funny, and have fun meeting people.
Good suggestions and I agree. In my case I'm working out and dressing well again, women do take notice-I've gotten compliments recently for it. While I'll never look as great as I did when I was 18, at least getting fit will make me more attractive to women.
While some guys play the numbers game, hitting on everything that moves, I generally approach women when I sense there might be an attraction. My ego can't handle much rejection.
This is where I hand to to black guys, maybe because most of them are butt ugly imo-they decided not to care about their looks and just go after what they want and they succeed. Certainly being in the media helps too.
Rejection is always a milestone to get passed. Awhile back I started watching a group of college kids on youtube called SimplePickup. They taught me how to make rejection more fun then devastating. You should check them out. They are hilarious.
Cool I'll check it out-well certainly I laugh it off, but I get offended at 'lowering myself' to pick up some girl who I realize I shouldn't have approached anyway.
But like anything else, you have to expect some failure to get some success.
IIN attractive women make me feel negative about myself
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It's normal but you should snap out of it. Do what Holzman67 says. It's all truth. I have been working out lately and regardless of results, I just FEEL like bad ass doing it. Just the idea and act of doing stuff to better yourself gives you unimaginable confidence. I was like you man. I've been there. All you can do is beat yourself up when you see someone you're interested in. But I made some changes to myself and now I have the confidence and the "not give a fuck" attitude. Still don't have the girl but that's a work in progress haha.
Here are some things that I did to not necessarily "better" myself, but just change it up a little bit and it made me feel really good about myself.
- Working out
- Bought some new jeans
- Got a haircut
just some simple stuff that made me feel better in my own skin. If you already have swag and sexy hair then just get swole haha. you can also try fragrance but don't get ridiculous with it. Maybe style your facial hair. Just put on something you have been wanting to try out and really break it in. the confidence will just come naturally.
Remember though. A new style is just to change it up and get you interested in yourself which will emit confidence. In the end though be yourself, talk about what you wanna talk about, laugh about what you think is funny, and have fun meeting people.
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Good suggestions and I agree. In my case I'm working out and dressing well again, women do take notice-I've gotten compliments recently for it. While I'll never look as great as I did when I was 18, at least getting fit will make me more attractive to women.
While some guys play the numbers game, hitting on everything that moves, I generally approach women when I sense there might be an attraction. My ego can't handle much rejection.
This is where I hand to to black guys, maybe because most of them are butt ugly imo-they decided not to care about their looks and just go after what they want and they succeed. Certainly being in the media helps too.
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Rejection is always a milestone to get passed. Awhile back I started watching a group of college kids on youtube called SimplePickup. They taught me how to make rejection more fun then devastating. You should check them out. They are hilarious.
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Cool I'll check it out-well certainly I laugh it off, but I get offended at 'lowering myself' to pick up some girl who I realize I shouldn't have approached anyway.
But like anything else, you have to expect some failure to get some success.
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never regret approaching. You never know what could happen until you try.
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indeed