Iin, as a guy, to have a fairly low sex drive?

Okay, so I'm aware of how it's normal for other guys' drive to be extremely high, and almost dominating, in most cases, in a relationship. (Especially if they're young). I have a female friend I'm very open to, and we discuss these things regularly. However, she isn't convinced when I tell her I don't usually think about sex when I think about women. I suppose my sex drive is low. My average masturbation rate is once every other day or so. I tell her that I focus on personality first and foremost, and naturally she assumes I'm making s**t up. Just so you know, this is not a roundabout way of trying to hook girls in bed, it's the truth, I just find that, expectantly, not many believe me. Normal?

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  • xino00

    fark the b*tch man.
    You don't have to tap her ass all the time especially when you are busy.

    Plus having sex/masturbating drains your energy and you'd have to build it up with energy food again.

    Tell her to watch porn man.

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  • looner

    i like guys like u and wish more of them existed. guys that only talk about sex are kind of annoying .-.
    and your sex drive isnt low at all. youi masterbate every day, which is a lot if u ask me. u ddon't have a low sex drive u just arent a nasty perv like the others.

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    • SEWnanist23

      I recently had a male step cousin that wanted to Chaterbate with Me and I'm a Guy too. I wasn't very comfortable with that. That turns Me extremely frigid when I get harassed!

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  • SEWnanist23

    Your libido will ebb and flow through out the year or in circumstances where You are comfortable and feeling Amorous or You may feel uncomfortable if You feel harassed by either gender! Your genital is also an expression of mood & health.

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  • Flatulophiliac

    Well not necessarily normal or abnormal but I know personally it can be 1 of the signs or symptoms of a head injury to have low sex drive

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  • You are normal. But in today's abnormally perverted society, you probably have erectile dysfunction, is gay, needs a life, needs to get a girlfriend, needs to make friends with benefits, is gay, not manly enough, a nerd, a wimp, a p*ssy, need to go out more, you're deprived, you're missing out, you need to go clubbing, oh did I mention you're gay? *sighs* what is coming to this world? You are perfectly fine, it's the world that needs to considers its priorities and concerns.

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  • StarTeddy

    That's definitely normal. I would even think it's ideal. And masturbating every other day doesn't sound like a low libido either. I once knew a guy who was a virgin and had only masturbated twice in his life.

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  • tmobull

    Don't Stress. Could be too much masturbation is robbing you of sufficient drive. Its sort of like spoiling your appetite for dinner. Like, don't have 3 rolled tacos an hour before you eat.

    Also, if you think your libido is too low, see a doc. Depending on your age and lifestyle, recreational drug use can kill libido and even start cycles of chronic depression (which can also be a libido killer). Also stress itself can drain a healthy libido. Don't over-think things. Maybe try whacking it half as much for a starter. If you're taking illicit drugs, give that a rest. If you're a worrier, try doing things that relax you (NO, not masturbation). Take long vigorous walks. Do some resistance weight training with some bar-bells. Eat well and get good sleep. A healthy body is a horny body.

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  • EVERYONE ON THIS WEBSITE: BE CAREFUL OF "BUDTHE WISE" - HE IS A FIRST CLASS CREEP, WOMAN ABUSER, RACIST AND IGNORAMUS ... AND PLEASE DO NOT LISTEN TO ANY OF HIS CRAPPY AND ABUSIVE ADVICE. PLEASE!!!

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    • giggity

      thanks for telling me about bud the wise

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  • Yeah the difference between you and some of the guys you know may not be libido - it may be that you actually have an idea of how sex and relationships go together; whereas they have no clue about relationships, and are left talking bullshit & preoccupied with their johnstons.

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  • matches

    I think your normal and your masturbation level sounds about right some times I do it daily but most often its every couple of day's. Its a healthy lifestyle. This of course as long as you can perform in bed when its time to. If not slow down on wanking. Try new and kinky sexy way's to have sex with each other and alone. Spice it up a bit.Be romantic she will love it

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  • KatieLiz

    Well it's not normal to hear of a guy who's got his priorities in the right place

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