Is it normal after first time having sex, to tell the girl it was your first time?

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After losing my virginity, I'd like to tell the girl that it was my first time having sex. I wouldn't want to admit it beforehand cos it'd only put her under pressure to perform well, but I think it'd be nice to tell her afterwards. It'd let her know that it was special for me and that I thought she was good enough to lose my virginity to. Is that strange for a guy to admit that though? I'm 22, which is a bit old to lose your virginity so I'm a bit worried what she'd think of me. She could be a complete bitch who'd basically just call me a loser and kick me out. Or what if it was an older woman? Would she just recoil in horror after telling her cos she'd see me as a child? I don't want her to think that she's spoiled my first time, that it should've been with someone special. I don't want to lose it to the person I marry or anything, I just want it to be good enough. So should I say this or keep it to myself?

PS. Obviously with the virus now this won't happen for another year anyway, I've just been thinking about it lately.

Yes, that's sweet 13
It doesn't really matter either way, but if you want then go ahead 14
No, why would you do that? That'd just make things awkward 5
No, that's embarrassing, she'd laugh at you on the inside if not to your face 3
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  • donteatstuffoffthesidewalk
    3 years ago | pl

    i tell that to every woman every time

    even if weve done it three times that day already

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    • SkullsNRoses
      3 years ago

      That’s what I thought this post would be about.

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    • litelander8
      3 years ago

      😂

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      • Bazinga
        3 years ago

        Awwwwww. After my first fuck, I said, "That was wonderful. I'm here for your pleasure. Break me in your way, babe." Damn, did she ever know how to teach the erotic arts.

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        • litelander8
          3 years ago

          After my first I said something like, “ that was fun let’s do it again.”

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          • Bazinga
            3 years ago

            My my. You're as pleasant as a bouquet of flowers. Thanks for making me smile.

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            • litelander8
              3 years ago

              😂

              Anytime.

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  • SkullsNRoses
    3 years ago

    It’s entirely your decision, do it if you want to but don’t feel like you “owe it to her” because you don’t. Also try not to hope for a “movie moment” of her finding it touching or endearing; as you say she might find it odd or just not care at all. Keep your expectations low.

    As a side note 22 isn’t that old to be a virgin, introverts everywhere are virgins well into their 20s and just don’t advertise it. You’re more normal than you think.

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  • RoseIsabella
    3 years ago

    I lost my virginity to fellow virgin, and I wouldn't change a thing about it!

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    • Bazinga
      3 years ago

      I rarely do this, but I'm giving you a thumb bump. You were very lucky to have such a good first experience.

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  • SwickDinging
    3 years ago

    If you're going to tell her then why don't you just tell her beforehand?

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  • rocketdave
    3 years ago

    She probably realised it during the act.

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  • LloydAsher
    3 years ago

    First times are always awkward especially if both parties are first timers.

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  • Cuntsiclestick
    3 years ago

    I was never a fan of lying by omission.

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  • freelarking
    3 years ago

    The girl I lost mine to knew beforehand.

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