Is it normal a chinese girl learn english only want to marry a white man?

One of my friend simply adore the white man. In fact, she wished that she was an American or European. She really hate Chinese people, also herself. She learned English just want to marry with a white man. And as one best friend for her, I just want to know if this is normal or some kind of psychological problems?

Is It Normal?
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  • I'm a Chinese girl and I kind of get her sentiment although I have no desire whatsoever to marry a white man. It's the whole Western supremacy thing. I guess white men appeal to her because she's been educated in English and there tends to be a cultural bias on both sides. Where I come from, there's always this idea that the English-educated are more intelligent and educated, hence the appeal.

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  • It's normal but I don't know why she would hate Chinese people.. I don't understand.. She should be happy with who she is. Humans are humans after all, nationality doesn't really differ us. We can learn any language we want.

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  • This is common. I read an article in National Geographic. They want the American Dream. They want to be successful and rich. Sometimes they get it by marrying a white guy.

    I think it's also common for some people to hate their ethnicity. Michael Jackson sure did.

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    • Hi Bamf, that sounds really reasonable. But how white guy realize that Chinese girl to be with them is only for love or other ulterior purpose?

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  • maybe they got brainwashed by western media lol

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  • The Western media drills the idea of White Supremacy into our heads. "If it ain't White, it ain't right".

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  • I swear to god, some white people are arrogant as hell. Yeah you're right, because every other culture hates their selves, and wants to become white. I'm pretty sure the o.p is some person trolling. The syntax looks like an "imitation" of stereotypical, broken, "Asian" English.

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    • Correction: anyone can be arrogant, but i'm specifically using white because it relates to this question. No offense intended.

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  • sounds like a bit of both, u can be atracted to any race it doesn't matter, but the self loathing based on race isnt.

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  • Different people like different things. It might be what makes her happy. Or perhaps she's confusing a vision with happiness. Only she can know that.

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