Most people make a distinction between loving your child, and being in love with your child.
This sounds to me like she has potentially unhealthy feelings towards her son, especially since she felt the need to post here - presumably because she thinks the kind of love she feels isn't the usual maternal bond.
My concerns are that her relationship with her son could become difficult or odd; she might jealously guard him, shun potential romance with adult partners because in her mind she has the perfect partner, she might expect displays of affection beyond the usual familial interaction, she might behave romantically and expect reciprocation...
That's the impression I got from this post. She is 'in love' with her son '1000%', which suggests incestuous feelings (albeit non-sexual).
Read: http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Covert_incest
But hey, maybe she's worded herself in a misleading way...
Stupid. Psychological mumbojumbo is just that. There is no sexual feelings and I dont feel guilt. He loves me just as much as I do him and he is old enough to know whats up. We are a team, eachothers anchor and I prefer to keep it that way until he is off on his own. No other man can compare to the bond we have and I dont need sex or penises to be happy.
iiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiii. I'M IN LOVE WITH MY SON.
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Most people make a distinction between loving your child, and being in love with your child.
This sounds to me like she has potentially unhealthy feelings towards her son, especially since she felt the need to post here - presumably because she thinks the kind of love she feels isn't the usual maternal bond.
My concerns are that her relationship with her son could become difficult or odd; she might jealously guard him, shun potential romance with adult partners because in her mind she has the perfect partner, she might expect displays of affection beyond the usual familial interaction, she might behave romantically and expect reciprocation...
That's the impression I got from this post. She is 'in love' with her son '1000%', which suggests incestuous feelings (albeit non-sexual).
Read: http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Covert_incest
But hey, maybe she's worded herself in a misleading way...
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*slow clap*
Couldn't have said it better myself.
Stupid. Psychological mumbojumbo is just that. There is no sexual feelings and I dont feel guilt. He loves me just as much as I do him and he is old enough to know whats up. We are a team, eachothers anchor and I prefer to keep it that way until he is off on his own. No other man can compare to the bond we have and I dont need sex or penises to be happy.
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It doesn't have to be sexual to be inappropriate.
You should be able to distinguish between being in love with someone and loving someone in a maternal/familial way.
The fact that you don't seem to be able to, could be a worrying sign.
Of course, you could just be trolling, or very bad at conveying what you actually mean...