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What the title says - I just don't care that much. I've never really liked anyone enough to have sex with them, and whenever I hear my friends talk about their dates or their relationship woes, I just can't help but think about how drained I would be if I were in their shoes. I just don't know how people find it all so worthwhile. I don't think it's a matter of "finding the right person" or "being a late bloomer" either; I'm pushing 30!
Do you identify as asexual or aromantic? If you’re not sure this website has a lot of useful information in its FAQ sections:
https://www.asexuality.org/
I see some other comments encouraging you to try sex for the sake of trying it which is a terrible idea. Regardless of your sexuality, if you don’t want to have sex don’t. If you’re ready you will know and if you never want to that too is valid.
It's very Normal in my opinion. I didn't lose my Virginity till I was 26. I'm in my 40's now and haven't had SEX in 2 yrs. My opinion is it's only Sex and what comes with that is emotions and Drama. My ex Girlfriend and I only had had SEX once a month. I'm just not that into it.Thats probably why she left me. If I get aroused I masturbate.
I'm in the same boat as you. I can't find anyone that has similar interests as me. I'm depressed also cause my girlfriend died 2 yrs ago. I'm just not willing to try and find someone else again because it's So MUCH WORK.Keep your Head up you will find someone it just happens sometimes out of nowhere.
Me either (to late for me though). I was 20 (really 19 & 11 & a half months, might as well have been 20) when I tried it. Got bored about 4 minutes into it, pushed her off me & walked out without saying a word. By far the most uncomfortable situation i've ever been in in my life.