This is a hard one. I was gonna suggest adoption as you said but it's true, seeing her child would definitely change her mind in a second. I think the question is not whether she'll have the baby or not, since that's completely up to her in the end. The main question is whether you love her enough to accept her with her "rape child" or if you're gonna leave her. I personally think it's insane to have (or keep) a baby from someone who raped you. It would drive me crazy. If I was you I'd leave her no matter how much it would hurt. The situation is too damn complicated. That's my advice but whatever you choose best of luck.
If your girlfriend got raped, what would you do in this situation?
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This is a hard one. I was gonna suggest adoption as you said but it's true, seeing her child would definitely change her mind in a second. I think the question is not whether she'll have the baby or not, since that's completely up to her in the end. The main question is whether you love her enough to accept her with her "rape child" or if you're gonna leave her. I personally think it's insane to have (or keep) a baby from someone who raped you. It would drive me crazy. If I was you I'd leave her no matter how much it would hurt. The situation is too damn complicated. That's my advice but whatever you choose best of luck.