If you find out someone you care about lied to you?

If you find out someone lied about a detail about themself and you found out the truth on their twitter. Chances are they may have lied on their twitter but its very unlikely

Confront them about it 8
Dump them 1
Ask them about it to see if they lie again 9
Keep it to yourself and slowly pull away from them 3
Give them time. Maybe theyre embarrassed to tell u the truth so soon 8
Other 1
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  • JD777

    Happened to me with a past gf. I told her I found out she was lying and she continued to lie about it until I presented hard evidence. If she had fessed up right away and seemed genuinely sorry about the lying, I would probably still be with her. But she didn't and she's history.

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  • howaminotmyself

    It depends on the lie. I called out a friend who lied to me and they apologized. It was a trivial lie about a personal detail and I overreacted. We are still friends. And better friends because of it.

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  • ArmusWasTheFirstTroll

    Depends on what they lied about.

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  • It really depends on how significant the lie was, if this was there only lie, and if they were truly sorry.

    If they frequently lied and didn't seem to try change their ways, then they're not a person you should associate with.

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  • NathanScott

    Depends with the lie.Does it go to the very core of that person's personality or is it just a simple white lie with no serious consequence.The reason i feel there is a difference is because i feel it is healthy among friends to keep some things about you private..

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  • TrustMeImLying

    Telling the truth takes courage. Sometimes lies happen, one can be caught offguard and lie as a knee jerk reaction, so I can understand that. But like someone said, there's still an opportunity to redeem yourself, by admitting that lie. And that takes courage too and is still respectable. I can accommodate and tolerate a lot of negative personality traits but insincerity is one where I draw the line, and it can irreversibly damage a connection for me.

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  • RoseIsabella

    Liars are human garbage to me so I dump them like the steaming piles they are.

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  • theseeker

    I don't think lying is ever a good thing, but it can be necessary in complicated situations. It wouldn't bother me too much as long as it doesn't affect me in any way. However, it would lead me to believe that I should re-evaluate the character of this person.

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  • peterr2

    There are lots of liars around, don't worry about it for fuck sakes. Ever try sucking a cock? If you say no, I will know you are a liar...

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  • thegypsysailor

    If you lie to me I will not understand and we most likely won't be any more than passing acquaintances.

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