Agreed. I got diagnosed with depression and that's all i ever heard, "you have to love yourself", so I stopped trying to get help. I do "love" myself anyway, thats why I wanna improve and become a good person not give up and say Im fine like this in the name of "self love". loving yourself is not all there is to this life.
to be honest though I probably do have way more sympathy than i should for people who are "not good" and have baggage as you say. as long as they are not a totally worthless asshole who cares how unremarkable they are. those people who simplify it to just "stop being a prick" make no sense to me especially when the person is/has been going through some shit. but I guess it's weak and pointless to have sympathy to most people these days.
i think you have posted something like this before right? a few months ago
If you are not a good person, logically you shouldn't love yourself
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Agreed. I got diagnosed with depression and that's all i ever heard, "you have to love yourself", so I stopped trying to get help. I do "love" myself anyway, thats why I wanna improve and become a good person not give up and say Im fine like this in the name of "self love". loving yourself is not all there is to this life.
to be honest though I probably do have way more sympathy than i should for people who are "not good" and have baggage as you say. as long as they are not a totally worthless asshole who cares how unremarkable they are. those people who simplify it to just "stop being a prick" make no sense to me especially when the person is/has been going through some shit. but I guess it's weak and pointless to have sympathy to most people these days.
i think you have posted something like this before right? a few months ago