If u do a gay thing for money but only desire the opposite sex, are u gay?

awhile back i had a VERY rich man who paid me A TON of money to do sexual things with him , the thing is .. I've never looked at gay porn, and I've only ever been attracted to woman and outside of this have only been with woman. Im not concerned about being called gay ...I'm just curious what you people think.

depends 5
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possibly 1
if you enjoyed it a little during it , then yes 23
frequently? then yes 3
sometimes 1
maybe 1
not sure 1
i suppose 0
kind of 1
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not really 8
lol 6
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only once? then no 6
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Comments ( 82 )
  • Nicole20

    Why don't people understand. Homosexuality is the ATTRACTION to the same sex.

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    • I totally agree, I just wanted to see what people thought. But ya it seems pretty obvious , If you tried basketball and you didn't ever desire playing basketball ,how could someone then call you a basketball player or a lover of basketball?

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      • Nicole20

        Yep exactly.

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        • I don’t think you are telling the truth , what makes you think you are not lying?

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  • Bazinga

    If you liked it, you're gay. If you didn't, you're a whore.

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    • well i believe whore could be called out on either side of that and technically be correct. lol Although, It's no joke when i said A LOT of money, I know its sounds unbelievable and it's a long story but Im talking much more then I make in a year at my decently paying full time job in 1-2 months. I think a lot of people would be tempted, maybe even you, that is, unless you're a total pussy! lol . all i do now is date girls and thats all i want, but i can definitely get over it when we are talking big bucks no problem.

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      • Bazinga

        You're a bisexual whore.

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        • GBA123

          Hes only bisexual if he likes both . And he’s made it very apparent he’s not into men . Honestly if someone’s paid me that much , assuming his yearly salary is atleast 30k and to that 30k+ for sex with a person I don’t like ??? For fucking sure catch me in their bed naked holding a rose I’ll do it . Most would he’s nit bisexual unless he says he is

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          • I don’t think you are telling the truth , what makes you think you are not lying?

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          • Lol, it is rather pragmatic, it’s a lot of money to pass up, if you have the ability to just be mature about doing something you hate and not feeling scared by it, then why not get some sweet cash.

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        • I don’t think you are telling the truth , what makes you think you are not lying?

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          • Bazinga

            Because a cock sliding around in your ass gives you a boner.

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            • flatter then a tire stabbed 20 times with a bowie knife. I think i got reverse boners when this happened , my dick ended up retracting up in my stomach with my balls lmao

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  • Ummitsstillme

    How much money?

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    • it depended on what we did, and the price fell over time, eventually I stopped. But especially when it first started he had just inherited like 5 million and so he didn't mind paying a lot, in the first few months I made over 50k. I know it sounds weird , like he could definitely find it cheaper but he was really into the fact that I wasn't a stranger and also my particular slim look .. not sure why I'm being so detailed with you folks lol , i guess I've kept it a secret so long it's nice to share it.

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      • bigbudchonga

        I would do it for that much man. You're just pragmatic.

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        • I don’t think you are telling the truth , what makes you think you are not lying?

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          • bigbudchonga

            50k is mad money. Relative to my financial situation it's just sensible to take 1 up the shitter.

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            • You are totally right, how could i have forsaken you. oh one last thing is their time for sensations if you always comb over the pine trees? it just always seems like there is no way around it. and it's like dude figure 8 , am i right?

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      • it's weird though , like it's not like i didn't have moments of pleasure during some acts, but like I still don't have a desire towards men or have any feeling of wanting to do it again. Unless of course ...it's for a stupid amount of money, but I won't seek that out.

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  • Columbusbiguy

    You are lucky. Does it matter if it is considered gay? You had a good time, made some cash, and had a new experience. Take it for what its worth and continue on with your life path.

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    • No it doesn't matter at all to me , i honestly don't care about wether or not I am defined as "gay" or not because i know myself and what I am, but i was just curious to see what people thought about it. But ya it was an experience for sure! lol weirdly there almost feels to be this level of maturity about it, in the sense that i was able to step out of my comfort zone to fulfill a close friends desires even though they didn't align with mine. and although that form of sex isn't what i want , i was able to experience another essence and I do believe it's helped me in my heterosexual relationships.

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  • raisinbran

    If you've consented to having a dick in your ass, you're gay.

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    • Forever? Lol

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      • raisinbran

        Yes, forever.

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        • I don’t think you are telling the truth , what makes you think you are not lying?

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        • So an example would be , you consent to have a dick in your ass when you are 19 in college , you did it but hated it. You meet your wife get happily married and 50 years later you’re still married to the woman you love and even start voting republican because you’re old and cranky, and you’d still be considered gay ?

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          • raisinbran

            Yes, you once agreed to have a dick in your ass. No straight man has ever willingly allowed a dick to enter his ass.

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            • If you think about it you're wrong because nothing ever left the middle ground before the edge, you cannot possibly see green shades unless you put on those sunglasses.

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  • LOLFanProductions

    I cannot believe no one mentioned bisexuality! Everyone is pointing out that he's either straight or gay. You guys don't even consider "being in the middle". Yes, there's a chance that he could be straight and only did it for the money. However, AT LEAST CONSIDER BISEXUALITY!

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    • I don’t think you are telling the truth, what makes you think you are not lying?

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      • LOLFanProductions

        What the hell are you talking about?! No one from the time I posted the comment mentioned bisexuality. What makes you think I'm lying man?!

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  • IrishPotato

    Fecking gay m8

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    • I don’t think you are telling the truth , what makes you think you are not lying?

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      • IrishPotato

        I'm just joking.

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        • Me too lol , not the post but my last comment. Just looking for reaction , I told everyone they were not telling the truth

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  • CDmale4fem

    Sounds like "Gay for PY" if you go thru with accepting money for it to me.

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    • I don’t think you are telling the truth , what makes you think you are not lying?

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  • As long as you made a lot of money, who cares? Just enjoy the money....and the sex!

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    • I don’t think you are telling the truth, what makes you think you are not lying?

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    • Amen

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  • RoseIsabella

    I just want to say that I heard a Russian accent in my head when I read this.

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    • I'm not Russian.. but yet another example of a GOLD comment lol ms.dover ..-- and no this is not a troll post ...... ... ....... .. .. ... ....

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    • This made me laugh when I read it back in that accent 😂

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      • RoseIsabella

        Da! 😎

        https://youtu.be/B77ZophoD-U

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  • Backwoodsblaze

    I am 100% straight. But for the right money and right circumstances I would let a man fuck me or suck him off. Why not . If it feels good do it. But I understand your point though. You are straight if you desire pussy. If you are with a man and even enjoy the act it's ok. But if you dream about waking up next to a beautiful woman then you're definitely straight.

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  • RoseIsabella

    I don't lie, I have no reason to lie.

    Please reread your comment. Most people know if they are lying, or not.

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  • I don’t think you are telling the truth , what makes you think you are not lying?

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  • 49erwellish

    The phrase 'unavoidable pleasure' is strange (see above) and I am not sure you are telling the truth at all. Who seeks to avoid pleasure? The money may have worked a bit like alcohol - lowers inhibitions - but I think you enjoyed sex with this man and that bothers you a lot though why it should is beyond me.

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    • I don’t think you are telling the truth , what makes you think you are not lying?

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    • I swear on my mothers life that the events I described are true, regarding my emotions towards it, I can’t swear a truth because obviously emotions are strange and it can be hard to describe even to ourselves. Their was a large part of me that would often dread having to do things with this man, but it was a constant battle because I was also pretty thrilled about huge wind falls of money and that was motivating. When I say unavoidable pleasure I feel a good example log what I’m getting at would be being raped , if you orgasm while you’re getting raped it doesn’t mean that you feel good about it or want to be raped , your body can be forced to feel a certain way even though your hearts not in it.

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      • It doesn’t bother me and we are actually still friends , but I’ve drawn a line. I’m just happy to discuss it on here since it’s not something I can talk about with others.

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  • onniiew

    I get the feeling you enjoyed it.

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    • I don’t think you are telling the truth , what makes you think you are not lying?

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    • There may have been moments of unavoidable pleasure, however I still found it very off putting and was unattached to the person I was with. My head space imagining something very different. Would certainly never seek it out from the same sex and I am wild about woman , that’s what gets my motor going is a hot babe.

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  • SmokeEverything

    Sexual preference is a PREFERENCE. It's what you'd prefer if you had your druthers. Outside of that everybody has a limit to what they'd do outside of that depending on the situation.

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    • I agree

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      • SmokeEverything

        Yeah so if you only do gay stuff for money it makes you extra heterosexual. The straightest thing you can do is have gay sex but not for sexual reasons.

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        • I don’t think you are telling the truth , what makes you think you are not lying?

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          • SmokeEverything

            If you have gay sex and don't like it it means youre not gay.

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        • onniiew

          is that from experience. When I smoke I have desires not before or after

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          • I don’t think you are telling the truth , what makes you think you are not lying?

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        • Maybe not the “straightest thing” but I get your drift lol. Good point.

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  • I was trying to be funny I guess with too many options , but now I kind of wish I had a clearer consenses , I guess I can still catigorize simular ones as one kind of vote.

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  • bigbudchonga

    Nah dude. It's called being "gay for pay" loads of porn actors do it.

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    • I don’t think you are telling the truth , what makes you think you are not lying?

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    • Gay for pay ! Lol I like that 😂

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  • myfreakinopinion

    You are attracted to money and that's what turns you on, not the trick.

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    • I don’t think you are telling the truth , what makes you think you are not lying?

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    • So I guess I’m not gay but greedy :c

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      • myfreakinopinion

        Yep, it called being open-minded.

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  • Getting near to another man's member for any reason is gay. You're tripping on technicalities... jerked/sucked a guy = gay af.

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    • I don’t think you are telling the truth , what makes you think you are not lying?

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    • well ya the act it self was gay , but does it make the person perminately gay ? even though they are not attracted to the same sex?

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      • If a person murders someone at 20, does the label of murderer still apply at 60?

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        • If you are a vegetarian when you are 20 , then stop and and start eating meat are you still considered a vegetarian For the rest of your life?

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          • I don't know man, food preference vs sex is quite different. Doing the deed with someone stays with you forever. If a chick was a professional whore for a period of time before getting her life back on track, she'll always be marked as the former whore and dudes stay away.

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            • If you’re a gay man and you have heterosexual sex , does that now make you a heterosexual for the rest of your life ? Lol

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