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Ok so my girlfriend and i had sex and shes on birth control. I believe its Orth nuvum 135 and im really scared. I kno its ridcoulouse because i pulled out and shes on the pill but if she is pregnant we agreed on abortion. Unfortunatley if we cant afford the abortion i want to get rid of it another way-normal???
Hopefully, this is a sad lesson learned. The only 100 percent birth control is abstinence. Just know that an abortion is going to scar her in ways she is unaware of. It can be very detrimental to her mental health. Please consider bringing that precious little gift of life in this world,. So many couples would stand in line to have an opportunity to nurture and love a sweet little baby. Some of our biggest mistakes can be transformed into our greatest gifts to the world. Either way you go, think it through well and be on the same page or it will destroy your relationship
Her just using protection isn't enough, you've got to contribute too. I'm sorry bit this is what you get. You don't to get an abortion. Ever heard of "adoption"?
OHHH!!! Also, the sooner in your pregnancy you are, the cheaper it is I heared. So it's better to get it sooner than later if she is pregnant.
Use a goddamn fricken condom!!! Oral contraceptives are not a sure fire thing!!! They are only 99% accurate if the harmones mix properly with the woman, that's why theres so many different pills. Higher estrogen levels, lower estrogen levels. It definately helps to take the pill, but it's like 1000% if you take the pill and use a condom. Talk to your girlfriend about it, tell her your fearful of pregnancy and you'd like to be more careful. And don't do it "just cause it feels better."
call the place where she is getting the abortion and then call the national abortion hotline and they will help you pay for it call the place where you want it done back and say they are going to pay some of the cost they should knock off 100 or so dollars making it like 200 something goodluck
how do you plan to get rid of it another way? beat her up and throw her down the stairs?
if you can't handle the consequences of your actions... you shouldn't be having sex.
I heard that if girls who may be pregnant can drink a hot cup "Lipton Tea(black)" hot and not sweetened at all can prevent them from being pregnant at all. Do this for about two weeks and once or twice a day...if scared then make her drink it more than three times a day...it helped my sister.