If love turns to hate was it ever love?

You love someone and by any reason it doesn't work out, it's unrequited or complicated. Starting to hate someone you previously felt you loved: is it a contradiction or possible?
I don't believe true love can ever turn to hate. Maybe hurt and desperation but when you love someone you shouldn't wish them any negative crap.

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Comments ( 16 )
  • donteatstuffoffthesidewalk

    depends if the objecta yalls love really is who they presented theyseves as and how theys behaved and if theys changed over time in an undesirable manner

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  • Yes i believe love can turn into hate.

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  • Rayal

    You can fall in love with someone without fully knowing everything about them. In time as your relationship grows and you gain knowledge about each other this can effect your feelings towards them. So, yes it is possible to go from love to indifference and even to the far extreme of hate.

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  • Cuntsiclestick

    Its possible. People react differently to being betrayed. When the relationship is over, some feel like they could never stop loving that person, others just hate them, and some just feel neither(they feel like that person is nothing to them).

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    • My ex treats me like the latter (I'm nothing to her).

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      • Cuntsiclestick

        Well at least she doesn't hate you.
        :)

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        • Indifference is the opposite of love IMHO.

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          • Cuntsiclestick

            Then forget about her. You don't need her.
            :)

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  • RoseIsabella

    It's a thin line...

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  • 94luvs80s

    You love and hate at the same time. You start to hate the one you love because people change, and personalities start clashing, and you just start to hate them as a coping mechanism. You know that it can't be forever. The longer you hold on, the hate overpowers the love. They/You may feel like the love is gone, but really you are just tired and don't want to try anymore. It's not the same.

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    • I could never hate someone I once loved. I just start feeling a different kind of love for them, not a romantic one.

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  • Thanks for the replies, guys.

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  • CozmoWank

    If milk turns to cheese was it ever really milk?

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    • Hellnaw

      Lol

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