Well, I've been dating a "nice guy" for a little while and I'm hot, physically fit, decently intelligent, independent and hard working. I'm also a little demented but it manifests itself as fiesty. So, I mean, he got someone good and kindness was never a turn off. He doesn't worship me but he values me.
Being an asshole will turn a super attractive man into a piece of shit to me. It's happened to me before. Whiny, being a prick, not being self sufficient... now THOSE are instant turn offs...
Would it help you to not thinking that I am a plastic, conceited little bitch if I told you that I grew up in a bad home in the middle of a trailer park, spent my teen years on and off medication and battling depression and suicide attempts and have finally gotten to a point where I can manage my emotions long enough to not destroy myself because of my high level of self loathing? Would it help you if I said I have to always wear pants or stockings to hide the scars on my legs? I had to cover my wrists in tattoos for the same reason?
Would it help you if I said that for a living, I help teens who were just like I was because I want to do as much to help them out of it as I can? Because I never want someone to go as low as I did? That I work unpaid overtime to win my kids scholarships or conferences with their parents and counselors because I want to give them every advantage that I didn't have?
My apologies for trying to think highly of myself for once. I forgot that I'm damned if I do and damned if I don't. I'm not broken equipment but shit, dude. Let someone like themselves.
You know I like you, Neuro but I think you overreacted a bit here. He may of just been making a slight joke, or that's what it came across as to me.
Is everything alright? You kind of blew up pretty easy, which isn't like you from what I've seen of you so I'm not sure if you had a bad day or something. :P
This resonates with me. I, too, after years of depression, scars, medication, and a suicide attempt, have learned to appreciate myself. I have openly acknowledged that I perceive myself as a person that was fortunate enough to be born with a better than average brain.
I am not pretty. I am not fit. I am intelligent. That is what I have and, yes, I love that about myself. But, if I tell someone I think so, I am vain.
People say that you can't love another without loving yourself. If this is true, then most people love themselves. Why is there a stigma in voicing that?
By the way, you sound like a better than average human being. Keep it up.
Well js your intelligent pretty and u look pretty fit and we'll true I love who I am what I am I'm just I think to much when I'm trying to meet someone and thank you I try to be the best I can be you sound like a very strong woman I love that u try and help as many people as u can
Wow well I think your pretty great to be able to go from a bad life to helping others that's pretty damn good u earned the right to think highly of yourself and you should thank you for helping and I know everyone u help for a liveing also thanks you your pretty amazing don't let people bring u down
Oh my lord I just viewed your profile and your like perfect gearhead and u help special ed your probably the closest thing to perfect as a girl can get
Haha I wasn't trying to brag about myself. I was just trying to say that being an asshole is unattractive and not being good looking absolutely does not impeded your chances of finding a good mate. I know some less than handsome dudes who seem to have no problem getting hot mates. Reason being, they are not assholes and just happen to be confident because they know that they have a lot to offer.
You, too, probably have a lot to offer. I have rejected plenty of guys though, so rejection will happen but you'll find the right mate if you just keep putting yourself out there. Increase your odds of catching by simply recasting the line.
Oh wow well good for him but I'm pretty sure he's got the looks if he wasn't as cute as u think he is being nice or not you wouldn't be with him so it's not just being nice you've also gotta have looks otherwise being a little bit of an asshole would make up or get u more attention to make up for the fact ur not as cute if that makes since
If i was an asshole would i be more attractive
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Well, I've been dating a "nice guy" for a little while and I'm hot, physically fit, decently intelligent, independent and hard working. I'm also a little demented but it manifests itself as fiesty. So, I mean, he got someone good and kindness was never a turn off. He doesn't worship me but he values me.
Being an asshole will turn a super attractive man into a piece of shit to me. It's happened to me before. Whiny, being a prick, not being self sufficient... now THOSE are instant turn offs...
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Would it help you to not thinking that I am a plastic, conceited little bitch if I told you that I grew up in a bad home in the middle of a trailer park, spent my teen years on and off medication and battling depression and suicide attempts and have finally gotten to a point where I can manage my emotions long enough to not destroy myself because of my high level of self loathing? Would it help you if I said I have to always wear pants or stockings to hide the scars on my legs? I had to cover my wrists in tattoos for the same reason?
Would it help you if I said that for a living, I help teens who were just like I was because I want to do as much to help them out of it as I can? Because I never want someone to go as low as I did? That I work unpaid overtime to win my kids scholarships or conferences with their parents and counselors because I want to give them every advantage that I didn't have?
My apologies for trying to think highly of myself for once. I forgot that I'm damned if I do and damned if I don't. I'm not broken equipment but shit, dude. Let someone like themselves.
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You know I like you, Neuro but I think you overreacted a bit here. He may of just been making a slight joke, or that's what it came across as to me.
Is everything alright? You kind of blew up pretty easy, which isn't like you from what I've seen of you so I'm not sure if you had a bad day or something. :P
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Hmmm? No, my point was more along the lines of "shit, let me have one, here. You got me fucked up" but I'm drunk so it's not working.
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I must of misinterpreted what you said. Soz. Just seemed like you were snapping back at something which I thought was odd for you to do.
Aha, boozing it up, are we, Neuro!? You type well for a drunk person. :P
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Years of experience...
This resonates with me. I, too, after years of depression, scars, medication, and a suicide attempt, have learned to appreciate myself. I have openly acknowledged that I perceive myself as a person that was fortunate enough to be born with a better than average brain.
I am not pretty. I am not fit. I am intelligent. That is what I have and, yes, I love that about myself. But, if I tell someone I think so, I am vain.
People say that you can't love another without loving yourself. If this is true, then most people love themselves. Why is there a stigma in voicing that?
By the way, you sound like a better than average human being. Keep it up.
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Well js your intelligent pretty and u look pretty fit and we'll true I love who I am what I am I'm just I think to much when I'm trying to meet someone and thank you I try to be the best I can be you sound like a very strong woman I love that u try and help as many people as u can
Wow well I think your pretty great to be able to go from a bad life to helping others that's pretty damn good u earned the right to think highly of yourself and you should thank you for helping and I know everyone u help for a liveing also thanks you your pretty amazing don't let people bring u down
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Lol sorry I can be weird. Drinking is the only way for me to do laundry =/
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Oh my lord I just viewed your profile and your like perfect gearhead and u help special ed your probably the closest thing to perfect as a girl can get
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Haha I wasn't trying to brag about myself. I was just trying to say that being an asshole is unattractive and not being good looking absolutely does not impeded your chances of finding a good mate. I know some less than handsome dudes who seem to have no problem getting hot mates. Reason being, they are not assholes and just happen to be confident because they know that they have a lot to offer.
You, too, probably have a lot to offer. I have rejected plenty of guys though, so rejection will happen but you'll find the right mate if you just keep putting yourself out there. Increase your odds of catching by simply recasting the line.
Lol no your fine I promise :) don't be sad let's see that pretty face smile :)
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That was to Neuro mate, not you
I love that you showed yourself some love. Most people don't do that enough.
Oh wow well good for him but I'm pretty sure he's got the looks if he wasn't as cute as u think he is being nice or not you wouldn't be with him so it's not just being nice you've also gotta have looks otherwise being a little bit of an asshole would make up or get u more attention to make up for the fact ur not as cute if that makes since
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I thought he was butt ugly on our first date, don't get me fucked up here haha
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Lmao oh wow that guy must be pretty lucky your amazing hopefully I find someone as amazing as u