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So I asked him what he wanted and he said he only wanted me for sex. And he said that he only wants to date this one girl but she doesn't want him. And it really upset me but I just acted like it didn't bother me and went with it. But it still upsets me bc I feel like I'm not good enough.
If you didn't like it, you shouldn't have went with it. You've gotta have a little self-respect. Stop seeing him unless it's your intention to just have sex with him.
As for whether or not you're good enough, he thinks your not, he made that clear, but that's one person's opinion. You should already think you're good enough not to be treated like a piece of ass and not take that treatment from someone.
You should stop talking to him. He thinks so low of you that he'd completely disregard your feelings and only value your crotch. Stay away from people like that. They'll only ever make you feel like shit about yourself.
Is he a good lover or does he just "fuck" you?
If he gives you a lot of pleasure there is nothing wrong with using him for some good times.
Let him be your bitch!
It's not that you aren't good enough so don't take it that way. He's not interested in having a relationship. If I was you I wouldn't waste my time with someone like that. Especially if you are wanting some type of romantic relationship.
So he told you he only wanted you for sex and you weren't happy with that but went along with it anyway? You need to forget about him (at least hew as honest) and work on your own self-esteem: why do something you didn't feel comfortable with?
Men and women like sex. Having sex is fun. Are you waiting for love to have sex or enjoy it until you get married and never have anyone to compare your husband with. If you try other guy's first you may decide that the one that wants to marry you can't satisfy you in bed.
There's nothing wrong with you. You deserve someone better than that piece of shit.
This guy is what most experts refere to as a "douchebag". Granted, at least he's an honest one. But why the hell would you want anything to do with this guy? Either he must be the hottest man on earth or you have very low self-esteem. There are a million better guys out there, so please don't satisfy this emotional cripple's selfish wishes. It would only make him worse.
You've been given a great opportunity here: A guy who doesen't care about you flat out told you he doesen't care about you.
That's not your problem. It's his.
When I get dental patients who don't scream in agony during my procedures, I sometimes feel like I'm not good enough. But, hey! There's always more guys out there, so don't feel too angry.