if a person say'd no to you after the first date, whats your reaction?

ummm.. i understand tht u feel tht i should have been nicer, but if you re-read the story you will see tht i never told you about wat i said, i only told you tht i turned him down. and i didnt do it in a "coldhearted" way, as isee soem ppl are calling me.

im not a mean person. i didnt say yes because relationship issues tht i had in the past tht might effect the way i think now. for all of you who think tht i am a coldhearted b-i-t-c-h, you are so wrong. i told him "derick, ur a nice guy.....and i guess i had a great time, but this date made me realize tht i am not ready for another realationship." then he asked me "well if your afraid tht i might run away and leave you, then thts not me , im not the type." and i said "no. it's not tht i just have issues." i also told him soemthing, which was the reason he started staring at me. i do not like to prolong stories when i write. i never meant to let anyone believe i was cold hearte! honest!