Oh man that sucker had the world dropped on him!!!! Wish we could see his poor face LOL!!
I have a rule, I you feel like a jerk then you are a jerk.
Why did you expect him to just "walk off", it's like "oh okay then, let me go and catch my fav show".
look if you don't like a guy, don't go on a date with him. if you lead someone on, at some point you are going to be the jerk.
If you did care for him even a little you'd have realised how bad "no" sounds like in that situation, and wouldn't have expected him to take it like it was nothing. Next time deliver the news sincerely. "I enjoyed it and everything BUT, ....," optionally you can throw in "we can still be friends". and make sure you wait for a response.
ummm.. i understand tht u feel tht i should have been nicer, but if you re-read the story you will see tht i never told you about wat i said, i only told you tht i turned him down. and i didnt do it in a "coldhearted" way, as isee soem ppl are calling me.
im not a mean person. i didnt say yes because relationship issues tht i had in the past tht might effect the way i think now. for all of you who think tht i am a coldhearted b-i-t-c-h, you are so wrong. i told him "derick, ur a nice guy.....and i guess i had a great time, but this date made me realize tht i am not ready for another realationship." then he asked me "well if your afraid tht i might run away and leave you, then thts not me , im not the type." and i said "no. it's not tht i just have issues." i also told him soemthing, which was the reason he started staring at me. i do not like to prolong stories when i write. i never meant to let anyone believe i was cold hearte! honest!
if a person say'd no to you after the first date, whats your reaction?
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Oh man that sucker had the world dropped on him!!!! Wish we could see his poor face LOL!!
I have a rule, I you feel like a jerk then you are a jerk.
Why did you expect him to just "walk off", it's like "oh okay then, let me go and catch my fav show".
look if you don't like a guy, don't go on a date with him. if you lead someone on, at some point you are going to be the jerk.
If you did care for him even a little you'd have realised how bad "no" sounds like in that situation, and wouldn't have expected him to take it like it was nothing. Next time deliver the news sincerely. "I enjoyed it and everything BUT, ....," optionally you can throw in "we can still be friends". and make sure you wait for a response.
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ummm.. i understand tht u feel tht i should have been nicer, but if you re-read the story you will see tht i never told you about wat i said, i only told you tht i turned him down. and i didnt do it in a "coldhearted" way, as isee soem ppl are calling me.
im not a mean person. i didnt say yes because relationship issues tht i had in the past tht might effect the way i think now. for all of you who think tht i am a coldhearted b-i-t-c-h, you are so wrong. i told him "derick, ur a nice guy.....and i guess i had a great time, but this date made me realize tht i am not ready for another realationship." then he asked me "well if your afraid tht i might run away and leave you, then thts not me , im not the type." and i said "no. it's not tht i just have issues." i also told him soemthing, which was the reason he started staring at me. i do not like to prolong stories when i write. i never meant to let anyone believe i was cold hearte! honest!
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okay okay, then your not cold hearted :)