If a guy stares at you but is not interested?

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  • He might suffer from confidence issues. Speaking as someone familiar with that situation, it might be that he feels shy or afraid to call you because he's nervous that you won't like him when you get to know him.

    It's also possible that he doesn't think he's good enough for you and isn't prepared to take the risk. If it were me in his situation I would like to get some reassuring hint that you're still willing to pursue things with him.

    It might also depend on how outgoing or sexually active you are. No offence intended, but if you give off the impression that you are well-schooled or confident in your sexuality, he may feel intimidated by unfounded notions that he won't be able to live up to your expectations.

    It could may other reasons, but this is my personal take on the matter. The only thing you can do is investigate. Despite overwhelming popular belief, guys are not turned off or intimidated by a girl they would otherwise date if she makes the first move (and perhaps the next few moves after that).

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