Iam in love with a straight guy, iam trans

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I am a trans woman who is yet to get complete transition. People in the second or third conservation with me can recognize me that I am girly. I met a good looking colleague who is good at heart too. I am so scared to interact with people, I only get to speak with few girls who are close to me and know me as a girl inside. That colleague slowly started to talking with no hesitation, usually people (guys/men) do not make good rapport with me after they recognize me as girly or trans. This makes me feel alone but this guy making me so happy and awesome, so obvious thing happened I mean I am deeply in love with him. I also let him know about my attraction towards him and also about my true gender. Still he is being same with me. What should I think about him on my love?!

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  • bob7
    6 years ago

    so you have a penis and you like a straight guy ? oh well sad story

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    • Ahsas
      6 years ago

      But why is he still the same close to me even after saying him that feelings for him. Usually people make distance right?!,..

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      • bob7
        6 years ago

        does he know ur a guy?

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        • Ahsas
          6 years ago

          Yes !!! He knows

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          • insanebotv21
            6 years ago

            have you tried asking him out anyways?

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          • bob7
            6 years ago

            straight guys dont like gays , simple , no need to ask online

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  • LionsMane
    6 years ago

    Him remaining kind doesn't mean he likes you in that way. I would slow down a bit. If he really is straight, I hate to say it but he is probably not going to be interested. Plus, the workplace is not a good place for relationships. It only complicates an already difficult thing. I'm just trying to help you out as a straight guy.

    I recently worked with a Trans although I believe he was going from male to female. I'm pretty sure he liked me and I remained kind but was careful not to let conversation get too far. You have to realize that it's what you are wanting, not him, and that him not being rude once you've put yourself out there means nothing other than him just being a kind person.

    Chances are you are going to have to find someone Trans or not straight. It's not impossible he could like you but you've already put yourself out there (and it sounds like quite a bit). He will let you know I'm sure.

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    • Ahsas
      6 years ago

      Thank you for the feedback ...you may be correct as u think as a straight guy ... he may not like me in that sense..
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      A trans can't choose a trans as love but may be as a good friend (like a girl to girl / boy to boy).

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      • LionsMane
        6 years ago

        Well a Trans who went from male to female can be with a Trans who went from female to male, correct? Why can't Trans have love? I guess I don't understand your point

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        • Ahsas
          6 years ago

          Okay... understood (y)

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  • --Quinn--
    6 years ago

    First of all, you /are/ a girl. Don't let anyone tell you otherwise. That is your true gender. And if he like him and he likes you, go ahead!

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    • Ahsas
      6 years ago

      U make so happy... thanks for saying i am a girl.... 💟

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      • --Quinn--
        6 years ago

        It's no problem! I know what its like to be misgendered. I really hope it works out for you!

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        • Ahsas
          6 years ago

          Thanks a lot... hope so

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  • Pumpurrnickel
    6 years ago

    If he's not making any moves then he clearly doesn't feel the same way about you. I don't think there's much else you can do.

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    • Ahsas
      6 years ago

      Okay!!! Thank you for responding

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  • amour937
    6 years ago

    Go for it girl!!!!!!!!!!

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    • Ahsas
      6 years ago

      Thanks on recognizing my gender correctly

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  • charleylovescars
    6 years ago

    You are a girl. Therefore, if you guys end up in a relationship it is not going to change the fact that he is straight. Good luck in your love life and stay strong!

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    • Ahsas
      6 years ago

      Thanks :)

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  • LuxM4G
    6 years ago

    I say you go for it and ask him out on a date after telling him the full truth. Ask him about how he feels about your sex change operation. He may not be as straight as you think, maybe he's bi curious. Just make sure he's serious about committing to a relationship with you and that he's not fooling you around in his own personal venture into the unknown.

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    • Ahsas
      6 years ago

      Even I thought he is "bi" when he treats me like a girl even though he knows i am biologically not .. but he says he is straight..big confusion

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  • Coolpop21
    6 years ago

    Don't let yous self down go for it

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    • Ahsas
      6 years ago

      Sure thanks

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  • Jimbo24
    6 years ago

    Some straight guys go for shemales. Try wearing or doing something sexy around him and see how he reacts. Cause some trannies I look at and I'm like "Damn!"

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    • Ahsas
      6 years ago

      Thank u so much for responding.. I observe him say things that way (sexy) ... but that might go in a humour way from his point of view but i was taking them serious.
      May be my bad..

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  • rayb12
    6 years ago

    Who knows what will happen, take a chance, be a warrior

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    • Ahsas
      6 years ago

      I said him about my feelings for him. he just reacted neutral like " okay " . No hatred at all .

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