I would like a woman's perspective on this question..

Most women don't operate that way; they just don't. It doesn't mean that they don't want sex; they do.

Think about it for a second. There's a reason why the female and male brains are designed to operate differently.

When the human brain evolved, it was back in hunter/gatherer caveman days and shit. As for any animal species on the planet, the biggest biological imperative, stronger than even survival, was not only procreation but successfully passing on ones genes, as frequently as possible and as SUCCESSFULLY as possible.

For men and women, this has different meaning.

Say you're a "cave woman" and you get dragged by the hair to the nearest rock and nailed, and find yourself up the duff. Humans have a comparatively loooong gestational period, and an extremely (fucking insane compared to other species) long period where they have to care for their young (because the human brain is our biggest asset and takes the longer to develop than, say, motor skills)...

so basically, if women want to successfully procreate, they couldn't just shit out babies and leave them in the woods like a Russian hooker and hope for the best. For the cave woman, successfully spreading her genes means investing time in successful offspring, in effect becoming incapacitated during the later months of pregnancy through late toddlerhood....we are talking YEARS where she can't protect herself or find food. As a result, women are biologically DESIGNED to seek out completely different qualities in a mate...basically, in addition to indicators of health (physical attractiveness), women sought indicators of stability and an ability to provide (most still do, it just comes in a different package now)...that stuff is not just something you can see from across the room.

For men, their best bet to having the most and most successful offspring is to mate with the most females...not only that, but the most biologically fit (attractive) females. In essence, they have just as good of a chance if they have many offspring as they do if they insure that a few offspring are cared for...so men are programmed to fuck as many people as much as possible, and not value other traits as much.

This was the way the male and female brains evolved, and the differences still exist. Men and women realase entirely different brain chemicals during sexual intercourse, the female's more geared towards long term bonding...it's pretty interesting.

Anywho, there are reasons why different sexes react differently to physical attraction. Having said that, none of us are a slave to biology alone. Human beings are complex. I'm sure there are women who want to fuck anything attractive.

I don't find myself thinking when I see a guy "Wow, I liked to fuck him"

I more or less think hmm he's attractive and that is about as far as it goes from me.

When I see an attractive guy, I just think "he's cute" or "he has a nice butt". It rarely goes beyond that, but when it does, I'm picturing him on the end of a strap-on. lol

For men, if he is some combination of attractive in appearance and demeanor, yeah, the thought might occur to me but not terribly often.

For women, as they are just outwardly more physically attractive to me, same answer as above but at a bit higher of a frequency.

Most of my sexual thoughts are about whoever I am currently sexually involved in and maybe a crush or two.

yes given time

Although I'm not a woman, I would just like to add a bit of "common sense" to the comments here. Most of them confirm what society already knows: that men are more visually oriented in terms of attraction compared to women, and that women generally care more about personality in terms of attraction. But, that is not to say that women don't get horny and don't have high sex drives. If you just type "girl horny" in the search bar here you will find tons of questions asked by girls/women if it's normal for females to be horny almost all the time, some even go on to say they are especially horny during their periods. So we have what looks like a paradox...women who say they want to have lots of sex, but who also don't want to have sex with pretty much any guy they see. So in conclusion I would say that most women have libido that rivals that of most men, it's just that female brain processes attraction differently, and possibly takes a wider range of factors into consideration.

When I look at somebody I imagine them having sex. Obama.

I do not want.to fuck every women I see. I was just at a black friday sale and there are some really big linebacker-sized gals out there. So for me, it's most women I see not all.

Men are microwave ovens, women are slow cookers. Men know instantly who they want. Women don't, but they seem to ignore nice guys and give jerks more of a chance.