I have a brother who is younger by about 2 years. Me being a female, he is a little bigger than me and he will continue to grow also. He has anger management issues and this will continue to get worse. Sometimes i imagaine what the future will be like , like for example if i had my own place and he just showed up with no place to go. Knowing his issues and past hes had i would never let him live with me. Now trying to imagine what it must be like in your situation.. which would be 50 times worse i totally understand where your coming from. The burden of someone who just so happens to share the same bloodlines as you does not seem enough excuse to just"take them in". Not only would he drag you down, he would be a danger to you and anyone he comes in contact by the sounds of it. It would be better for him too, to send him to a center. Not to sound completely cold either but you have a right to be selfish. You'll add more to society than he will anyways. Do what you want.
Thank you. I once talked to his doctor. He told me that his issues will only get worse. My mother told me she's going to send him to a boarding home for the mentally disabled once there's an opening. And if she doesn't I'll do it myself.
I won't take care of my autistic brother when my parents die, IIN?
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I have a brother who is younger by about 2 years. Me being a female, he is a little bigger than me and he will continue to grow also. He has anger management issues and this will continue to get worse. Sometimes i imagaine what the future will be like , like for example if i had my own place and he just showed up with no place to go. Knowing his issues and past hes had i would never let him live with me. Now trying to imagine what it must be like in your situation.. which would be 50 times worse i totally understand where your coming from. The burden of someone who just so happens to share the same bloodlines as you does not seem enough excuse to just"take them in". Not only would he drag you down, he would be a danger to you and anyone he comes in contact by the sounds of it. It would be better for him too, to send him to a center. Not to sound completely cold either but you have a right to be selfish. You'll add more to society than he will anyways. Do what you want.
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Thank you. I once talked to his doctor. He told me that his issues will only get worse. My mother told me she's going to send him to a boarding home for the mentally disabled once there's an opening. And if she doesn't I'll do it myself.