I understand that you might wanna continue your life the way you had always planned/hoped. But this sounds kinda sad. I mean, don't make your brother out to be some kind of burden. He didn't ask to be autistic. It just happened that way.
Talk to your parents about it. Tell them exactly how you feel about it, but I'm sure you can find some kind of way to take care of your brother and live your life too. I think you should definitely consider what BurnaBaby27 said. But also think how your brother might feel about it/take to it.
He's going to a group home. I'm not taking care of him. He's bigger, faster, and stronger then I am and I don't need to deal with an angry person who beats on people he deems as physically weak. He almost got my mother sued once and I refuse to one day get sued because he has no understanding of consequences for his actions. He destroyed a good amount of house property and I refuse to have him bring down the value of my home. My parents argue about him constantly and have to put up with his antics. I really don't see any room for him in my future.
At the end of the day, decide what you want. But atleast visit him and still make him see hes part of your family. He has his issues but he didnt choose to be born that way, no one controls that sort of thing. And honestly, you better hope karma doesnt kick in and your children send you to a home when your older and need help. But then hey, they might not see room for you in their future then either.
I won't take care of my autistic brother when my parents die, IIN?
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I understand that you might wanna continue your life the way you had always planned/hoped. But this sounds kinda sad. I mean, don't make your brother out to be some kind of burden. He didn't ask to be autistic. It just happened that way.
Talk to your parents about it. Tell them exactly how you feel about it, but I'm sure you can find some kind of way to take care of your brother and live your life too. I think you should definitely consider what BurnaBaby27 said. But also think how your brother might feel about it/take to it.
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He's going to a group home. I'm not taking care of him. He's bigger, faster, and stronger then I am and I don't need to deal with an angry person who beats on people he deems as physically weak. He almost got my mother sued once and I refuse to one day get sued because he has no understanding of consequences for his actions. He destroyed a good amount of house property and I refuse to have him bring down the value of my home. My parents argue about him constantly and have to put up with his antics. I really don't see any room for him in my future.
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At the end of the day, decide what you want. But atleast visit him and still make him see hes part of your family. He has his issues but he didnt choose to be born that way, no one controls that sort of thing. And honestly, you better hope karma doesnt kick in and your children send you to a home when your older and need help. But then hey, they might not see room for you in their future then either.
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hey do not say that karma will not get him it is his choice his personal feelings no one controls that sort of thing
thats right argee with him
he has a very huge point