I will never have sex

Ow, i'm skinny & i have those. Trust me, I will never wear those kinds of stuffs too, even I love to swim. But you see, you cant' say things that you don't know yet. You just need love. ;)

Hold on there.

In addition to weight, you seem to have a major insecurity issue.

Lose weight and (more) guys will go for you. As far as skin probs, don't be confused - use coco butter and maybe tone (or tan) and you might be surprised at the results.

Trust me, there is hope. I myself am in a wheelchair, unlike many gals, and my BF still loves making love with me.

Stay Strong!

October Marie

Just because you overweight doesnt mean you will never have a bf....or sex for the matter.
you said your losing your weight so hopefully you will lose any insecurity with it and the rest will happen by itself.

You can always become a lezbo and lick pussy. Or take pictures of your snatch and sell them on the internet. Personally, I'd love to score with a fat chick... it would turn me on to see her wiggle and jiggle while I thrust my 7 inches of rock hard manhood into her.

you no wat i love fat chick i would do every thing to you (warning im going to turn you on) i would first get butter and rub it all over your body. then ill kiss you from your lip to your pussy. then ill lick your pussy till its nice and wet. final ill sticl my cock so deep in your pussy then ill anal you. im not jokeing at all.

I had a friend growing up that was severely overweight, and she was always depressed about it. The thing was , even though she was fat she still had boyfriends and eventually got married to a nice man that seen the beauty she possessed in her heart. Since then she had an operation to reduce her stomach size, and she has lost a lot of weight and really looks good. I can tell she feels a lot better about herself and her self esteem has improved a whole bunch. I am sure she is having problems with a lot of loose skin, but I know some of that can be cured with just regular exercise. The point I am trying to make to you is hold your head up high and be proud everybody has their imperfections, and it sounds like you are already improving yourself. You will be so much healthier for losing all that extra weight. I believe there is somebody out there for each of us a "soul mate" so to speak, and you just haven't met yours yet.

Keep losing those excess pounds, and you can address the loose skin problem after you get to a healthy weight. Good Luck.

First off you shouldn't have sex with anyone until you are perfectly comfortable with your body, you could become emotional dependent on them and sex, only have sex with someone you feel extremely comfortable with. Second off you need to learn to love your body. Also people have five senses, we base a lot of our knowledge on sight but sight isn't everything. find something you love about your body, and keep in mind that your skin may repair itself, look for natural remedies cream and other vitamins which might make your skin feel and look better. maybe talk to a dermatologist. Then keep in mind the other senses, taste, smell, touch, and hearing. All senses play a factor in sex if you feel insecure about how you look do it in the dark, or in darkly lit rooms, it will be harder to see the stretch marks. I hope you become more secure with your body and stop feeling so depressed. the dark times in our lives are not the best but there is always a light after the darkness in the tunnel, just remember that. GOOD LUCK!!!

There's lots of good reasons to not have sex and to love yourself instead. Insecurity doesn't stop the rest of the world just fyi but sex isn't even that fun (for women.)

Most women have body image issues from being bombarded with the pornography of society. Try to pay attention to how things feel, rather than how they look. You can always dim the lights to make yourself more comfortable. Candlelight is very romantic. Look for a partner who has the patience to wait for your trust. Love includes flaws.

Not being funny but there are loads of men who love big big woman I do know there are websites you can look at some men will buy pictures or videos from u it takes all sorts to make the world go round

Tou aren't the problem. Society is. Look up plus size models online. It makes me feel good about my chubbyness when i see other women like me flaunting themselves and being confident with who they are. Don't give up. It's what this world wants.

I would FUCK u just so u could feel a dick in u I would be fine with u

So what the fuck shall i do bitch?

im skinny n i have stretch marks, i encourage you to eat better food, work out n drink lot of water, also, there thing you can do to attenuated the strech mark. Like massages your skin n use essentiel oil or drank fennel tea...you can do it, and trust me all the girl, even the top model dont have perfect body. :)

Sometimes it's sexier to have parts of the body you don't see than to have everything up for grabs. There are plenty of lingerie/uniforms that will cover the parts you dislike most and accentuate the parts you are happier with. The trick is to get to know your own best bits and showcase them to a like-minded person. More importantly though, I've been size 8 to size 16 and always had issues with my body parts/ stretch marks etc. but I KNOW I'm sexy no matter what size. When you can come to terms with your own body and learn to love yourself then someone will love you back. There's someone of the opposite sex who feels just the same... Go find that person and let go of the hang ups!

You DO realize that there are guys who feel the same way you do and would love someone that felt that way and you would connect perfeclty because you would have a major aspect in your life that is in common. I'm 130 lbs. at 5'7 and I will NEVER go out in public in a bathing suit..your not alone and and you won't have to come to terms with this!:)

Moisturize. Most guys don't care about stretch marks anyway though.

Are you kidding? I am thin and have stretch marks. I have short legs. I have no boobs. I don't give a damn. You either like me for who I am or go $#&% yourself. Get some confidence. Personally, men don't really care that much about your skin. They like a person who is kind, giving(sexual), neat, and can cook a descent meal. Didn't you ever hear that saying, "A way to a man is through his stomach and penis".

Man Up.

dont let your wight pull you down.
fat girls need love to :)

by the way, i didn't mean for that first sentace to be an inuendo.

Nobody is perfect, we all have flaws. I know you probably hear this a lot, but it's true. I have flaws on my body that I would rather someone not see...but that's what makes love so real and amazing. You can trust that person to accept your flaws, and cherish you. There is a guy out there who will love you, and accept your flaws. We all have that perfect someone. So, don't give up. Hold your head high, and show the world it can't fuck with you ;)

why are women so hung up on there looks no matter how ugly you are ther is a guy out there either desperate enought ot do you or warped in the head enough to be genuinely sexually attracted to you so via con dios my dear.

get Palmers Cocoa butter it does wonders and smells absolutely delish! they have one with olive oil too! keep your head up! you wouldn't want to find somone when you're overweight and feeling badly about yourself anyway cause then you're not shining the real you! you will always get what you're putting out!

You are female and its natural that you always find disadvantages on you in fact every female does.We may notice things which no one notices.Dont say such things its like you say I am unhappy and I am ok with that.You should struggle.I dont think that in 21 century you cant cure your skin.Loose weight,go to spa prosedures,take care of yourself and always keep in mind no one is perfect.struggle for your happines.Dont give up

Make the best of what you got.
Change your diet be healthy don't do nothing.
google "mucusless diet healing system"

don't let those anorexic bimbos get you down. They just jealous cuz they don't got as much butt & boobs as you probably do. those 1/2 pound bimbos are ugly & nasty lookin anyway. most MATURE guys would like you for your personality, & if they don't, it's their loss b/c then they'll get with some skinny a** betch & wish they had never left you.

sex can also ruin your life if you're not careful. it's jsut not worth it. if i were you, i'd wait till marriage, so if you do end up pregnant, you would have a hubby to help you take care of it.

When you are a normal size (size 12 UK size) you may feel different.

Your skin may actually be better than you think and you may start to like your new body!

I can completely understand why you don't like your body, I would be disgusted with myself if I ever put on too much weight

Actually theres lots of chubby chasers out there who want a fat chick, "more cushion for the pushin" they say, so dont assume that EVERYONE loves skinny, cuz some skinny girls just look ugh nasty.

Theres actually night clubs out there where they only allow fat people inside, but they also let in the people who love fatties, so they can fetch a good one.

I'm serious the clubs even have a weight scale at the door, and anyone under 300 lbs does not get in.

In my opinion skinny girls look nasty dancing, because thers nothing to shake

I wish you could read this right now as you really need to hear this. YOU ARE FINE. AND A GREAT GUY WILL COME. Trust me, I was one for a great girl like you. Please look at the links I provided above. If you need to write and talk to get help, my email is [email protected] but I am faithful to my girlfriend. If you need a friend, write. I was depressed and fat once too (Look at the pictures in my profile's links.) so I understand. If you don't write, thats fine too but have a good life.

Urg, look at my profile. I am a decent looking guy and under the last part of it (For some damn reason, scroll down on my profile, I don't know why.) and you will see the following link

http://i17.photobucket.com/albums/b86/Budwise_thefirst

I changed the heavy girl in some of those pictures to this.

http://i17.photobucket.com/albums/b86/Budwise_thefirst/DressedUp2.jpg

She is far heavier than I am. Almost double but not quite. She is working on herself but she is doing it for her. I am a decent looking guy and I gave her a chance as she was just like you. She even has a very bad skin problem down below and was very scared of me not liking her because of it.

She has psirosis and athough not this bad, its quite bad in her "private" area.
http://images.google.com/images?rls=ig&hl=en&source=hp&q=psoriasis&rlz=1W1ADFA_en&um=1&ie=UTF-8&sa=N&tab=wi

But as a good guy who saw a girl who just needed someone to be close to her, I became her friend and it turned into more. I am truly happy with her but please ignore my other post as I was trying to get feeling out. Yes, her weight still bothers me but she is a good person inside and for that I am happy.

Just make sure you are happy with who you are, if only on the inside. A great guy will come. One good thing though, is that you don't have to worry about trashy men being interested. Just dirty, screwed up ones who are horny or a good guy and those are easy to tell apart.

once you say you will never do something...

if you genuinely decide that and believe that...

you are writing your own destiny

I used to be overweight...now I'm 145 but I used to be over 200 lbs in 7th grade. It gave me horrible self esteem because of the things people said about me. So ya know what? I got determined to change it. I exercised and ate the right diet for 2 years and I dropped the weight with no problem. My skin was pretty loose but over time (probably due to exercise) it tightened up a great deal. So don't give up! I never thought I'd have sex either but you'll be amazed at how easily things can change :)

Aww girl :(
Don't feel that way, if you say you're not gonna have sex, it's ok, but saying it's because of you it's really bad. If you fall in love it's because of the person's soul. If he loves you, don't feel bad with yourself.
Skin is only like the package, we're all beautiful. :)

It sound to me like you have something called body dysmorphic disorder. By your own admission even when you lose the weight you will still be unhappy with your stretch marks, untoned skin etc. This is a psychological disorder, and there may be something more to it than simply being unhappy with your looks, such as low self-esteem or even depression. You should consider seeing a counsellor about this.

Oh sweetie! Excercise helps get rid of excess skin! You can do it, and we all have stretch marks ... well at least those of us with sensitive skin. I have stretch marks on my boobs and hips just from puberty!

You know there are concealers designed to cover scars (pretty much what stretch marks are, in a sense).

u need to talk to someone professional cuz no matter how skinny u get ull never be happy, i gained 30lbs from having a baby and ive lost 20 i am kinda happy but always want more. my friend is almost 400lbs she recently lost 30lbs she never thought she could lose weight but shes had losttsaa bfs guys pay attention to her more than me im 170lbs..she has horrible stretch marks and scabs all over and she lets her tits half hang out of her shirts so of coarse she gets bad guys but sometimes their good shes only 19 tho shes still just having fun so should u.. motivate urself to lose weight instead of feeling bad about it.. i should take my own advice!.. but itll get better aloota overweight ppl have sex and get married.. but it seems u need to have some help to boost ur confidence and spirits and get u happy and loving ur life not worrying about ur body!!

dude really?!
get over yourself
more people have it way worse than you do.

everyone has their flaws, and i'm sure there are uglier people than you.

wait till your special man comes along

hire a male prositute

hey girl, hows you?
Just reading through your story. Im 21 too, and Ive had to kids so I do know about strech marks...hate them. Ive used Bio oil, palmers sterch fade cream and also plian old almond or olive oil. its doesnt take them away, but it makes them look better. I totally understand where your coming from, you dont feel confident about your body. Im not being rude babe, but if you dont love your self, then no one will. You have to do what ever it takes motivate yourself. Becuase when your motivated, it gives you drive, purpose and power to do what you was unable to do before. You say your fat, loose the weight...put some tunes on your ipod and go for a power walk every afternoon. 30 mins aday. will make you feel so much better inyourself. aLL THE BEST!!!x

its u body no has rights to make fun of itu should have sex when u feel like it it is perfectly normal at 21 to be a virgin. ppl die as virgin but thats there busines if i was u i would have sex when iam ready. and iam half black

some people have fat fetishes. also u can always do it in the dark

Suck it up! Ur beautiful and dont let anyone tell you differently! That attitude is what makes you ugly not your weight or your skin.

'Nada!

:)

Tobra

Yeah, I always said I would die a virgin, but I likely won't now. Either way is fine :)

Glad your feeling good...Hope it works out for you.

I am sure that you will sex and if you don't then it's really no big deal. Just gotta have faith ya know.

I love fal women
Specially licking their butthole.

I'm 6'2,200 lbs. i'm not brad pitt, but i do try to take care of myself, keep myself looking good. the thing is, i love overweight women. they drive me crazy. i have no idea why this is the case. all i know is that when i'm with an overweight girl, i come about five times harder than with a typical "hot" girl. Hotness is subjective.

hey girl ,, i dont have the money to afford u the plastic surgery , but if i do ill sure pass it to u .. have a lovely day ..