Yes, maybe it is selfishness. The birthday thing is not really that big of a deal to me, I was just using that as a small example.
But instead of telling someone what their problems are, why not point out some way to overcome the problem. In a way, withholding advice is also a very selfish act, especially when it's obvious that somebody needs it. So aren't you being selfish by pointing out my problems, but not having the decency to offer advice?
I will hate you... no matter how good of friends we used to be.
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Yes, maybe it is selfishness. The birthday thing is not really that big of a deal to me, I was just using that as a small example.
But instead of telling someone what their problems are, why not point out some way to overcome the problem. In a way, withholding advice is also a very selfish act, especially when it's obvious that somebody needs it. So aren't you being selfish by pointing out my problems, but not having the decency to offer advice?