I went to his concert and now i have feelings for him

But he lives on the other side of the world and I think he has a girlfriend who could probably rival his talent a bit. He's the most talented musician I've ever seen. He can play any of the 17 instruments on the stage + more and he demands such a great stage presence and crowd engagement ability and also posesses an uncanny humour. I've never seen anyone with his energy, flair and passion for music and he's only 25. His passion is infectuous. He's delightful and kind, staying afterwards to answer questions of fans waiting outside (on a world tour where he'd definitely be exhausted). I just wish I could meet at least someone like him and get to know them and then maybe marry them or at least be a good friend for life. But there's no way anyone so incredible would be interested in somebody so ordinary as me, is there now?

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  • You could always dig up some corpses, cut them up and build a boyfriend out of the body parts that most resemble him.

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  • Boojum

    Normal - for teenage girls especially - but still something you'll look back on in a few years as being pretty pathetic.

    It's a crush, and like all crushes, it's based on attraction to a false, idealised image of the object of the crush. For all you know, he's a thoroughly despicable person behind closed doors, and even though he puts on a friendly face when he's in public, he actually hates the adoration of fans such as you. Or maybe he laps up the attention because he's desperate for constant approval and just as insecure and needy as you.

    And, no, there's probably no way someone who moves in the circles he's in will ever even know you exist. So you have the choice of either fixating on this false image of a perfect, unobtainable guy, or you can go find someone real who's as imperfect as any other human, but good enough to allow you to be happy with him.

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