I want to wife swap with a black couple.

My wife and I have toyed with the Idea of swinging, but the whole thing of seeing me fucking, or eating, or kissing another woman is not a thing she is ready for. That's the reality of it. As for me, hey, let's bring it on! Seeing her with a black guy would add an extra kick to the whole thing. And I am so totally hot for black women. So the whole thing is, and will more than likely remain an erotic fantasy. But I can't be alone in this type of sexual fantasy can I? Is it normal to have an interacial sexual wife swapping fantasy?

Is It Normal?
Help us keep this site organized and clean. Thanks!
[ Report Post ]
Comments ( 6 ) Sort: best | oldest
  • Tread very carefully, many relationships can't take the strain of swinging. If there is any doubt in either of you, you would do best to postpone.

    Even if you both feel like you'd like to try, it's difficult to predict what kind of reaction you will actually have and both of you must respect the others feelings.

    Communication is the most important part of trying something like this, if you don't have absolutely clear and honest communication then don't proceed. This is also not a way to fix a broken relationship, which I'm not saying you have, but something I've heard many people say and it never works. If anything is broken, swinging is sure to make it worse, not better.

    Comment Hidden ( show )
  • so good to swap with other couples, best sex is with anothers wife and he has your wife.

    Comment Hidden ( show )
  • Treat it only as a fantasy the reality is a lot more dangerous I have done it in younger years all it brings is suspicion and doubt from both parties is they can trust each other from now on I still have doubts about my husband and we have been married 32yrs

    Comment Hidden ( show )
  • My ex always wanted me to have sex with a black guy so much that I ended up fantazing that he was in fact a black guy when making love. That got my curiosity so much that I shocked him one day and said yes let's go for it. I was regularly used, abused and gang banged by endless numbers of black guys so much so that I couldn't give them up. It never felt the same with my husband again and lead to the break up of our marriage. Go for it if you want but also think carefully about the consequences. I've lost a husband but gained a constant stream of black lovers.

    Comment Hidden ( show )
  • Why is race the focus here? It surprises me that interracial is still considered taboo nowadays. Sounds like your wife isn't interested in swinging, regardless who it's with. If a couple is on the same page, whatever tickles your peach. Your wife isn't down. I think persuading her into swinging will ruin your marriage.

    Comment Hidden ( show )
  • I think it's normal just maybe wait a bit till your wife if ready in the meantime just hope

    Comment Hidden ( show )