I have always suffered from the scarcity effect when it comes to things that I am attracted to. I have literally never met someone in real life I am attracted to. The only ones I want are: too young, famous, dead, too far away, a different race that is hard to find in my area, fictional (or all of those) and lately in the last couple years, not even human or living things.
Yeah you're the one who got mad at me because I told you that you didn't face discrimination on the same level as LGBT people.
Being made fun of for being a weirdo =/= being sentenced to death by your government. And you're still privileged. We literally had that former conversation after I read an article about two gay rights activists being sentenced to death in the Middle East, and from what I can tell you are still alive.
You don't know. Plenty of people have WISHED ME DEAD for my attractions. So yes, I AM more oppressed than gays in THE WEST. I am not talking about the middle east. And quit hiding my comments, I literally said nothing offensive in that comment, you do know people can just click "show" right?
I dont hide your comments, they're hidden when people dislike them. I don't have that ability.
And no, still not oppressed more. My ten year old lesbian niece was threatened with murder by her classmates when she went public with it and we live in the "liberal" state of California. A bunch of little kids are bullying her with homicidal threats and the school isn't doing anything about it because it happened over the summer. They even put the main kid in her class this year.
People still take casual attitudes about the severe harassment of LGBT people. Once you pop the bubble of what you see in the media and see the actual reality of society it's not the same.
My little niece was constantly sent pictures and messages saying, "kill the f**got" and similar things and the school will not do anything. She's 10. She was being sent those things by kids *the same age as her*.
Stop wanting to be a victim. Sometimes people have it worse than you.
Yeah, and I've been told to BLOW MY FUCKING HEAD OFF and had a hate group made about me because of MY attractions, and it's one that NOBODY ACCEPTS!!!! SHE DOES NOT HAVE IT WORSE THAN ME!!! I WILL NEVER BE ABLE TO BE WITH THE PERSON I LIKE AND I'M NOT HURTING AHYONE AND EVERYONE STILL WANTS ME TO SUFFER!!!
And for the record, there is NO dislike button on isitnormal comments
Tinybird, a thumbs up and thumbs down right next to the reply button. When you get thumbs down, eventually the comment will be hidden. I cannot do that. I can thumbs down a comment, but I don't really care to do that.
And again, she's 10 years old and is actually being bullied in-person by people who are sending her homicidal threats and being encouraged by their parents to be homophobic to the point of sending these kinds of messages to little girls.
Stop wanting to be the victim. There's two kinds of people who face oppression. One kind who look at another group and say, "I am sorry you face that as well. I also have pain." And then there are others who look at another group and say, "My pain is worse than yours, and I *DESERVE* MORE THAN YOU!" The latter is you. I literally just told you about a child who is getting sent death threats for her sexuality and your literal response was, "SHE DOES NOT HAVE IT WORSE THAN ME!!!"
You're a grown adult. Do you not see the problem with that reaction? How self centered and ignorant it is?
There's no thumbs down.
(I'm probably going to regret saying this. but) it's cause I have/had a crush on a certain deceased celebrity, specifically when he was a certain age!!!! I made a post about it on here too and it got shadowbanned!!!! People continually harassed me and called me names, not only for liking him, but liking tornadoes and North Koreans, like damn I'm not allowed to like ANYTHING. And they somehow twist my innocent feelings into something it is NOT. He's literally the only human I like in a love kind of way. Other than that I just like non-living things. I just wish I could talk to someone, preferably privately, about this. I was afraid to say this on this site not anonymously. But I'm tired of hiding my feelings all the time and hinting at why I feel so much resentment. And it's mainly the reason why I was s*****al when I loved him before, and why I suffer from extreme paranoia. Even saying this makes me feel as though I've just admitted to murdering someone's family and that everyone is going to suddenly come after me and try to hunt me down and make my life hell. But the thing is I crave understanding and connection, and I can't have any kind of meaningful connection with someone if they don't know certain things about me, because then it's superficial, cause I know they will hate me if they knew those things. It's why I distanced myself from friends and didn't bother even trying to talk to people anymore, cause why bother?
I also always get the same bullcrap reply from people online every time I talk about my autism, which is that "I have autism too it's not an excuse." I'm sure the people that say that don't share my experience, of not being able to do simple tasks, having screaming and crying meltdowns when upset, and I'm literally the same as I was when I was a kid, I still follow the exact same behaviours, still doing the same things, I have not changed and so people who are horrible to me online it's like they're grown adults arguing with someone who is very emotionally immature. (Me).
And another thing about my autism is my special interests fall hand in hand with my attractions, they ARE my special interest to the point it's the only thing I want to talk about.
Please please don't think differently of me or hate me because of that... I don't choose what I like, and I am not hurting anyone, I just feel nothing, but love for the objects of my special interests...
And yes I am arguing because you're literally invalidating my feelings and I mean NOBODY cares how I feel yet they expect me to care about them.
I want to say the n word just because i’m not allowed to
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I have always suffered from the scarcity effect when it comes to things that I am attracted to. I have literally never met someone in real life I am attracted to. The only ones I want are: too young, famous, dead, too far away, a different race that is hard to find in my area, fictional (or all of those) and lately in the last couple years, not even human or living things.
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Yeah you're the one who got mad at me because I told you that you didn't face discrimination on the same level as LGBT people.
Being made fun of for being a weirdo =/= being sentenced to death by your government. And you're still privileged. We literally had that former conversation after I read an article about two gay rights activists being sentenced to death in the Middle East, and from what I can tell you are still alive.
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You don't know. Plenty of people have WISHED ME DEAD for my attractions. So yes, I AM more oppressed than gays in THE WEST. I am not talking about the middle east. And quit hiding my comments, I literally said nothing offensive in that comment, you do know people can just click "show" right?
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I dont hide your comments, they're hidden when people dislike them. I don't have that ability.
And no, still not oppressed more. My ten year old lesbian niece was threatened with murder by her classmates when she went public with it and we live in the "liberal" state of California. A bunch of little kids are bullying her with homicidal threats and the school isn't doing anything about it because it happened over the summer. They even put the main kid in her class this year.
People still take casual attitudes about the severe harassment of LGBT people. Once you pop the bubble of what you see in the media and see the actual reality of society it's not the same.
My little niece was constantly sent pictures and messages saying, "kill the f**got" and similar things and the school will not do anything. She's 10. She was being sent those things by kids *the same age as her*.
Stop wanting to be a victim. Sometimes people have it worse than you.
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Yeah, and I've been told to BLOW MY FUCKING HEAD OFF and had a hate group made about me because of MY attractions, and it's one that NOBODY ACCEPTS!!!! SHE DOES NOT HAVE IT WORSE THAN ME!!! I WILL NEVER BE ABLE TO BE WITH THE PERSON I LIKE AND I'M NOT HURTING AHYONE AND EVERYONE STILL WANTS ME TO SUFFER!!!
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Tinybird, a thumbs up and thumbs down right next to the reply button. When you get thumbs down, eventually the comment will be hidden. I cannot do that. I can thumbs down a comment, but I don't really care to do that.
And again, she's 10 years old and is actually being bullied in-person by people who are sending her homicidal threats and being encouraged by their parents to be homophobic to the point of sending these kinds of messages to little girls.
Stop wanting to be the victim. There's two kinds of people who face oppression. One kind who look at another group and say, "I am sorry you face that as well. I also have pain." And then there are others who look at another group and say, "My pain is worse than yours, and I *DESERVE* MORE THAN YOU!" The latter is you. I literally just told you about a child who is getting sent death threats for her sexuality and your literal response was, "SHE DOES NOT HAVE IT WORSE THAN ME!!!"
You're a grown adult. Do you not see the problem with that reaction? How self centered and ignorant it is?
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(I'm probably going to regret saying this. but) it's cause I have/had a crush on a certain deceased celebrity, specifically when he was a certain age!!!! I made a post about it on here too and it got shadowbanned!!!! People continually harassed me and called me names, not only for liking him, but liking tornadoes and North Koreans, like damn I'm not allowed to like ANYTHING. And they somehow twist my innocent feelings into something it is NOT. He's literally the only human I like in a love kind of way. Other than that I just like non-living things. I just wish I could talk to someone, preferably privately, about this. I was afraid to say this on this site not anonymously. But I'm tired of hiding my feelings all the time and hinting at why I feel so much resentment. And it's mainly the reason why I was s*****al when I loved him before, and why I suffer from extreme paranoia. Even saying this makes me feel as though I've just admitted to murdering someone's family and that everyone is going to suddenly come after me and try to hunt me down and make my life hell. But the thing is I crave understanding and connection, and I can't have any kind of meaningful connection with someone if they don't know certain things about me, because then it's superficial, cause I know they will hate me if they knew those things. It's why I distanced myself from friends and didn't bother even trying to talk to people anymore, cause why bother?
I also always get the same bullcrap reply from people online every time I talk about my autism, which is that "I have autism too it's not an excuse." I'm sure the people that say that don't share my experience, of not being able to do simple tasks, having screaming and crying meltdowns when upset, and I'm literally the same as I was when I was a kid, I still follow the exact same behaviours, still doing the same things, I have not changed and so people who are horrible to me online it's like they're grown adults arguing with someone who is very emotionally immature. (Me).
And another thing about my autism is my special interests fall hand in hand with my attractions, they ARE my special interest to the point it's the only thing I want to talk about.
Please please don't think differently of me or hate me because of that... I don't choose what I like, and I am not hurting anyone, I just feel nothing, but love for the objects of my special interests...
And yes I am arguing because you're literally invalidating my feelings and I mean NOBODY cares how I feel yet they expect me to care about them.
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