It's most likely a psychological thing. You want to do it because you "can't" do it. When I looked it up I got something called the "scarcity effect", or essentially wanting something you can't have. Maybe another version is you were told you *can't* do it, so you *want* to do it that much more.
Technically you "can", it's just very socially undesirable in most situations to do so and you may be shunned for using it.
Just because something is illegal I would want it. A kilo of cocaine? Makes a great paperweight. The holy grail? So what if I want to drink 7 up out of a cup that touched the blood of christ?
Honestly the kilo of coke is a bit far. I perfer being on the legal side of technically legal. So maybe some vintage coke cola. Makes a better conversation peice.
I have always suffered from the scarcity effect when it comes to things that I am attracted to. I have literally never met someone in real life I am attracted to. The only ones I want are: too young, famous, dead, too far away, a different race that is hard to find in my area, fictional (or all of those) and lately in the last couple years, not even human or living things.
Yeah you're the one who got mad at me because I told you that you didn't face discrimination on the same level as LGBT people.
Being made fun of for being a weirdo =/= being sentenced to death by your government. And you're still privileged. We literally had that former conversation after I read an article about two gay rights activists being sentenced to death in the Middle East, and from what I can tell you are still alive.
You don't know. Plenty of people have WISHED ME DEAD for my attractions. So yes, I AM more oppressed than gays in THE WEST. I am not talking about the middle east. And quit hiding my comments, I literally said nothing offensive in that comment, you do know people can just click "show" right?
I dont hide your comments, they're hidden when people dislike them. I don't have that ability.
And no, still not oppressed more. My ten year old lesbian niece was threatened with murder by her classmates when she went public with it and we live in the "liberal" state of California. A bunch of little kids are bullying her with homicidal threats and the school isn't doing anything about it because it happened over the summer. They even put the main kid in her class this year.
People still take casual attitudes about the severe harassment of LGBT people. Once you pop the bubble of what you see in the media and see the actual reality of society it's not the same.
My little niece was constantly sent pictures and messages saying, "kill the f**got" and similar things and the school will not do anything. She's 10. She was being sent those things by kids *the same age as her*.
Stop wanting to be a victim. Sometimes people have it worse than you.
Yeah, and I've been told to BLOW MY FUCKING HEAD OFF and had a hate group made about me because of MY attractions, and it's one that NOBODY ACCEPTS!!!! SHE DOES NOT HAVE IT WORSE THAN ME!!! I WILL NEVER BE ABLE TO BE WITH THE PERSON I LIKE AND I'M NOT HURTING AHYONE AND EVERYONE STILL WANTS ME TO SUFFER!!!
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Tinybird, a thumbs up and thumbs down right next to the reply button. When you get thumbs down, eventually the comment will be hidden. I cannot do that. I can thumbs down a comment, but I don't really care to do that.
And again, she's 10 years old and is actually being bullied in-person by people who are sending her homicidal threats and being encouraged by their parents to be homophobic to the point of sending these kinds of messages to little girls.
Stop wanting to be the victim. There's two kinds of people who face oppression. One kind who look at another group and say, "I am sorry you face that as well. I also have pain." And then there are others who look at another group and say, "My pain is worse than yours, and I *DESERVE* MORE THAN YOU!" The latter is you. I literally just told you about a child who is getting sent death threats for her sexuality and your literal response was, "SHE DOES NOT HAVE IT WORSE THAN ME!!!"
You're a grown adult. Do you not see the problem with that reaction? How self centered and ignorant it is?
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It's most likely a psychological thing. You want to do it because you "can't" do it. When I looked it up I got something called the "scarcity effect", or essentially wanting something you can't have. Maybe another version is you were told you *can't* do it, so you *want* to do it that much more.
Technically you "can", it's just very socially undesirable in most situations to do so and you may be shunned for using it.
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Just because something is illegal I would want it. A kilo of cocaine? Makes a great paperweight. The holy grail? So what if I want to drink 7 up out of a cup that touched the blood of christ?
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Lol. But yeah, this is a thing that happens with people. Not everyone though.
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Honestly the kilo of coke is a bit far. I perfer being on the legal side of technically legal. So maybe some vintage coke cola. Makes a better conversation peice.
I have always suffered from the scarcity effect when it comes to things that I am attracted to. I have literally never met someone in real life I am attracted to. The only ones I want are: too young, famous, dead, too far away, a different race that is hard to find in my area, fictional (or all of those) and lately in the last couple years, not even human or living things.
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Yeah you're the one who got mad at me because I told you that you didn't face discrimination on the same level as LGBT people.
Being made fun of for being a weirdo =/= being sentenced to death by your government. And you're still privileged. We literally had that former conversation after I read an article about two gay rights activists being sentenced to death in the Middle East, and from what I can tell you are still alive.
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You don't know. Plenty of people have WISHED ME DEAD for my attractions. So yes, I AM more oppressed than gays in THE WEST. I am not talking about the middle east. And quit hiding my comments, I literally said nothing offensive in that comment, you do know people can just click "show" right?
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I dont hide your comments, they're hidden when people dislike them. I don't have that ability.
And no, still not oppressed more. My ten year old lesbian niece was threatened with murder by her classmates when she went public with it and we live in the "liberal" state of California. A bunch of little kids are bullying her with homicidal threats and the school isn't doing anything about it because it happened over the summer. They even put the main kid in her class this year.
People still take casual attitudes about the severe harassment of LGBT people. Once you pop the bubble of what you see in the media and see the actual reality of society it's not the same.
My little niece was constantly sent pictures and messages saying, "kill the f**got" and similar things and the school will not do anything. She's 10. She was being sent those things by kids *the same age as her*.
Stop wanting to be a victim. Sometimes people have it worse than you.
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Yeah, and I've been told to BLOW MY FUCKING HEAD OFF and had a hate group made about me because of MY attractions, and it's one that NOBODY ACCEPTS!!!! SHE DOES NOT HAVE IT WORSE THAN ME!!! I WILL NEVER BE ABLE TO BE WITH THE PERSON I LIKE AND I'M NOT HURTING AHYONE AND EVERYONE STILL WANTS ME TO SUFFER!!!
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Tinybird, a thumbs up and thumbs down right next to the reply button. When you get thumbs down, eventually the comment will be hidden. I cannot do that. I can thumbs down a comment, but I don't really care to do that.
And again, she's 10 years old and is actually being bullied in-person by people who are sending her homicidal threats and being encouraged by their parents to be homophobic to the point of sending these kinds of messages to little girls.
Stop wanting to be the victim. There's two kinds of people who face oppression. One kind who look at another group and say, "I am sorry you face that as well. I also have pain." And then there are others who look at another group and say, "My pain is worse than yours, and I *DESERVE* MORE THAN YOU!" The latter is you. I literally just told you about a child who is getting sent death threats for her sexuality and your literal response was, "SHE DOES NOT HAVE IT WORSE THAN ME!!!"
You're a grown adult. Do you not see the problem with that reaction? How self centered and ignorant it is?
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