I'm sorry to say this, but it sounds like he was never really over her, or you weren't that important to him, if he wasn't willing to cut off contact with her. In the long run, you're better off without that in your life. It sounds like, even if she hadn't stolen him back you'd still have to deal with her being in his life.
Being angry and even hating someone is a normal part of the grieving process. It's healthy; it helps give you the strength to move on. It sounds like this isn't the case for you, though.
As long as you're obsessed with them, she keeps control over you and she wins. She's manipulating you just as much as she manipulated him when he was with you. The best thing you can do for yourself is shake it off and move on and not let her drag you down to her level. Bitterness will only eat you alive and destroy you; it won't hurt her at all. Please try your hardest to move on, and get some counselling if you can't do it on your own.
I Want To Murder The Girl Who Stole My Boyfriend
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I'm sorry to say this, but it sounds like he was never really over her, or you weren't that important to him, if he wasn't willing to cut off contact with her. In the long run, you're better off without that in your life. It sounds like, even if she hadn't stolen him back you'd still have to deal with her being in his life.
Being angry and even hating someone is a normal part of the grieving process. It's healthy; it helps give you the strength to move on. It sounds like this isn't the case for you, though.
As long as you're obsessed with them, she keeps control over you and she wins. She's manipulating you just as much as she manipulated him when he was with you. The best thing you can do for yourself is shake it off and move on and not let her drag you down to her level. Bitterness will only eat you alive and destroy you; it won't hurt her at all. Please try your hardest to move on, and get some counselling if you can't do it on your own.