Hopefully you'll get out of this abusive situation sooner rather than later and not get into it again, though people tend to fall into patterns and those can be hard to break.
If you're staying for the sake of your abuser you should have more respect for yourself, that's a ridiculous reason to stay with someone. If you're staying for your kids, think of the lesson you're teaching them... being abusive is ok, staying with an abuser is the right thing to do.
Even if you won't do it for yourself, you owe it to your children to give them a better life.
The roommate thing is just peripheral to the real problem. It seems to me there's something wrong with the roommate if they can just sit by and watch this happening, so if you're looking for a new person to lean on, I'd keep looking. There are plenty of "nice guys" out there, you hardly need that one.
That's good to know, I'll keep that in mind if I ever find myself READING anything you write. It's rare to find someone so candid regarding their own shortcomings. Congrats.
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Hopefully you'll get out of this abusive situation sooner rather than later and not get into it again, though people tend to fall into patterns and those can be hard to break.
If you're staying for the sake of your abuser you should have more respect for yourself, that's a ridiculous reason to stay with someone. If you're staying for your kids, think of the lesson you're teaching them... being abusive is ok, staying with an abuser is the right thing to do.
Even if you won't do it for yourself, you owe it to your children to give them a better life.
The roommate thing is just peripheral to the real problem. It seems to me there's something wrong with the roommate if they can just sit by and watch this happening, so if you're looking for a new person to lean on, I'd keep looking. There are plenty of "nice guys" out there, you hardly need that one.
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That's good to know, I'll keep that in mind if I ever find myself READING anything you write. It's rare to find someone so candid regarding their own shortcomings. Congrats.