I want to leave my family home

Ever since my brothers gf got pregnant and decided to live with us my life has never been this fuckin miserable. They fight every single day and asks my parents for money to buy milk, diapers for my niece. I love my niece dont get me wrong, i dont blame her. Shes amazing and shes the only good thing in this house.

Just an hour ago, i was attending my online class as usual and my brother and his gf fought so fucking loud and my clssmates saw and heard everything. I was so embarassed i just ran and cried inside my room and i never finished my class.

I want to leave here but im broke.

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  • Omg is it bad that I wish I was in your online class so much? That sounds so hilarious. Omg I'm awful.

    I am so sorry that you cried. It's genuinely anxiety inducing being around dysfunction & you don't deserve to be embarrassed like like that. There's only 2 reactions you can have to a miserable situation; either wallow or get motivated to change your life. Dysfunction can be empowering because it can give you the kick in the booty to do something better with your life. I encourage you to use this opportunity to see where you don't want to end up & to do whatever you have to do to escape this situation. I know you feel trapped right meow, but you're not. Get a job. Save some cash money. Get your own place & jump on your own bed & don't have an unplanned pregnancy.

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    • Thanks man. It was kinda funny looking back at it haha. Good thing my teacher wasnt recording, it couldve have been a fucking meme.

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      • Hahahaha. Well, I'm glad you can laugh about it. That's good : ).

        You'll be ok, you know. It sounds like you have actual goals & great priorities. I know it's really hard to feel trapped. I'm in a kinda shitty life situation where I feel trapped myself. Just use it as motivation to get yourself the fuck out of there.

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        • Thank you so much. I hope you can be free too as well. :))

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  • I feel for you dude. That shit sucks. Hopefully you find a way to move out sooner than later.

    alot of people have crazy families so probably atleast 50% of your class see fighting like that at their homes too. Its really not that weird but it does suck.

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  • be happy shes not askin for money to buy heroin

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  • Why did they have a child if they cant afford it, I feel bad for that kid.

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    • They’re not the first couple to be poor and have kids.

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      • Abortion exists, if protection didn't work. It's just selfish to keep a kid you can't raise properly.

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        • So if it was up to you, all poor people would be required or forced to have abortions...

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          • Not required or forced but if more people used their brains and thought outside of themselves there wouldn't be as many children growing up in abusive homes or in otherwise difficult situations. I wouldn't have a baby if I was so poor i'd constantly have to nag my own parents for money, maybe the situation can improve but it's just irresponsible. I feel like many young people have kids just because "aww babies so cuteee" and don't think further than that. There's a special name for those types of families...

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            • I think wealthy families can be abusive. I grew up wealthy my parents have never given me money. I had a job when I was 14. I think you’re seriously wrong.

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