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This sounds crazy but trust me It works and will not hurt. Have her strike matches near your cock and balls and blow them out. The sulphur smell makes you tickle and get hard especially if they are struck hard so the pop hard. You don't burn anything you just have her tease it It will feel warm and will tickle a lot The harder and faster she strikes them the better.you can have her place the match box firmly against your balls it will tickle too. Or if the smell really makes you hard and horny smell the match box by having her hold it near your nose. She can strike them under your cock to just tease it only about 6 inches below try it

Is he as concerned about getting you off as you are for him?

Start masturbating in front of him, that always got my blood pumping when any of my ex wives did it.

Anything will work for me, but breasts are the best...

Just showing up will do it for me.

Just walk around nude. That gets me ever time.

Strap on sex

Wtf you just copy pasted the most extreme oath from the Vatican website!WHY THE HELL DID YOU DO THAT IN A PLACE LIKE THIS!?!?????!!!!!

she can sit on your face

But im not petting him though?

This is not a question for "Is It Normal?", but I will humour you anyway.

If you're giving him head, the odds are he is already horny.

When you're relaxing together, watching TV or something, rest your head on his lap. Unless he recently had a wank, instant hard-on trigger.

Chest kissing. Generally, guys who appreciate a woman's chest (if you get my hint) also like to feel theirs is appreciated as being "manly" and thus sexually attractive to you.

Most guys like a girl who is a bit of an animal. Try putting your head beside his and nibbling his ear (a bit, it's not a fucking Chewit) during kissing sessions. Obviously this is not suitable for public.

For the "relaxing, watching TV or something", you may have one of his arms around you and have his other hand holding yours. Put this holding hand on his crotch. It's more subtle, because his hand is there too, but your hand in close quarters with his Johnson shouldn't take long for it to start growing.

Guys usually are so that shouldn't be difficult. Kinda need more context here.

Let him fuck your asshole and lick his balls.
Let him deep rim your ass until you cum , piss , fart , shit on his face , belly , chest.

He only gets in detail if he is high.