I want to have sex with him. how do i tell him?should i even tell him?

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I'm in my senior year of highschool. There is this boy that I have been sexually attracted to for a very long time. I went to a party this last weekend and everyone got drunk (I very rarely party or drink). I was sleeping in my friends room and then the guy I've been "crushing" on for the longest time came I and layed down next to me. I was just in my panties and tshirt.

The thing is he had a girlfriend. She was actually there. He is a real jerk when it comes to relationships and everyone knows it. That's why I've never wanted a relationship with him. You can tell he is not faithful to is girl and she seems to not care (I don't understand that at all but whatever).

He touched me and kissed me. It was like a dream come true. I have NEVER wanted to only have sex with someone. I have my own morals and beliefs like everyone and I never have sex with someone I don't have some kind of feelings for.

I guess I have feelings for him but only to have sex with him. He's got a nice body and he is sexy as hell. I've never wanted someone so badly no matter how morally wrong it is.

I've learned alot when it comes to self control in the past year but when it comes to him no such thing exists.

We have a sports class together at school and everything I see him I get butterfly's. now that I've seen him naked and messed around (no intercross) I want to rip his clothes off and mine and attack him. This is crazy and I want it so bad.

Should I tell him? Should I not even go there? If I should tell him how do I tell him and how do I say it?

Just tell him at school 6
Text him 4
Call him 2
Don't pursue him at all 9
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  • disthing
    11 years ago

    In my opinion, you shouldn't go there. I'm sure I'll be in the minority for saying this, but he has a girlfriend. As much as you only want to have sex with him and as much as you think she doesn't care, I would not recommend being 'the other girl'.

    If he was single I'd say bang his brains out, but it's just my opinion that it's never a good idea to mess with someone who is 'taken'.

    If you're so confident that she doesn't mind, why not ask her permission before pursuing him for sex? Sounds weird I know, but if she didn't care, surely she'd say go for it? Or perhaps it's just that she likes him enough to put up with being hurt repeatedly? In which case, do you want to cause hurt to this girlfriend? It's up to you and your conscience.

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    • Littledreamer
      11 years ago

      Ya I cant down grade to being so low to be a bitch or a slut to this girls relationship... It hurts me tho cause Ive liked him since forever and I crave him so bad. Lol I wanna cry. This is why you don't get drunk. Shit.

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  • Energy
    11 years ago

    Go for it! Sounds fun. Just start flirting with him. And a guy like him probably won't fall for a relationship. So you guys can be friends with benefits or something.

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  • Terence_the_viking
    11 years ago

    Call him dale.

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  • Unimportant
    11 years ago

    But what if he is not good at sex?

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    • Littledreamer
      11 years ago

      We messed around at the party and he has an amazing "package" and he was great at what we actually did sooo I doubt that haha

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  • shuggy-chan
    11 years ago

    Maybe u want him extra cause it seems taboo, or wrong. U have to make that decision for urself, but I vote naww personally, I might enjoy it at the time, but afterwards I wonder way I did it.

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