Idk. Did he even know he raped you before you said anything?
I'm assuming you did because you said he's been apologizing.
You said you let him kiss you, but didn't kiss back.
You said you didn't fight him, so if you didn't protest mid-coitus, was he aware?
I'm definitely not justifying it, if you feel you were raped, and he's aware of it, don't talk to him.
If he's apologizing because he just now realized what he did but before thought it was consensual due to misunderstanding the situation and being drunk, then if you can, forgive him but be on guard and maybe avoid being alone with him..
I want to forgive and reconnect with a friend who raped me.
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Idk. Did he even know he raped you before you said anything?
I'm assuming you did because you said he's been apologizing.
You said you let him kiss you, but didn't kiss back.
You said you didn't fight him, so if you didn't protest mid-coitus, was he aware?
I'm definitely not justifying it, if you feel you were raped, and he's aware of it, don't talk to him.
If he's apologizing because he just now realized what he did but before thought it was consensual due to misunderstanding the situation and being drunk, then if you can, forgive him but be on guard and maybe avoid being alone with him..