Whether you forgive him or not is up to you, but reconnecting may not be the best thing for you at this time. You will need time to process what happened. You may find that you don't even want to see him anymore because it will trigger painful memories. Also, there's always the chance that he will do it again. No friendship is worth risking your safety.
I want to forgive and reconnect with a friend who raped me.
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Whether you forgive him or not is up to you, but reconnecting may not be the best thing for you at this time. You will need time to process what happened. You may find that you don't even want to see him anymore because it will trigger painful memories. Also, there's always the chance that he will do it again. No friendship is worth risking your safety.