This is really tough to answer, but I'm going to make it short.
I believe that everybody deserves a second chance in life and since you are considering forgiving him that he raped you might be reason to actually do.
It seems like he has an anger problem especially when he drinks so I advice you to talk with him about that and get him to never drink anymore or something like this.
Finally, you need to make 100% sure that he will never try anything like that again and remind him that what he did was wrong.
I want to forgive and reconnect with a friend who raped me.
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This is really tough to answer, but I'm going to make it short.
I believe that everybody deserves a second chance in life and since you are considering forgiving him that he raped you might be reason to actually do.
It seems like he has an anger problem especially when he drinks so I advice you to talk with him about that and get him to never drink anymore or something like this.
Finally, you need to make 100% sure that he will never try anything like that again and remind him that what he did was wrong.
Sincerely, DolphinAngel