It's a whole other thing to try and maintain a friendship with them.
It's your decision, but I would be concerned he would do it again. He clearly has romantic feelings for you, which makes you a prime target for his advances - but also his frustration and potentially anger.
People are incredibly remorseful when sober, but it's amazing how quickly that can be rendered null and void after a few too many.
I would recommend being much more overt in your objections in the future though. If someone is doing something to you you don't like, at the very least OBJECT, don't simply submit. You didn't give him much of a reason to think he was doing something against your will.
I want to forgive and reconnect with a friend who raped me.
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It's one thing to forgive someone for doing this.
It's a whole other thing to try and maintain a friendship with them.
It's your decision, but I would be concerned he would do it again. He clearly has romantic feelings for you, which makes you a prime target for his advances - but also his frustration and potentially anger.
People are incredibly remorseful when sober, but it's amazing how quickly that can be rendered null and void after a few too many.
I would recommend being much more overt in your objections in the future though. If someone is doing something to you you don't like, at the very least OBJECT, don't simply submit. You didn't give him much of a reason to think he was doing something against your will.